Luis_Rancagua
Don Juan
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What does it mean when a divorce woman is still wearing her wedding ring...even way after the divorce is official. Is it a sign that she hasn't gotten over her ex???
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Really!!! Through the ring (even though she's no longer married), it means that she has a fukc buddy.Falcon25 said:It means she has a fuvk buddy and is not looking to get hit on. She has someone.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
AKA another AFC provider. She may have more than 3 guys on the side, one of them not being you. Hell, most women don't like getting hit on when they DON'T have a wedding ring on.Falcon25 said:It just means she doesn't like getting hit on and doesn't want a relationship. She has not only one, but probably three guys on the side. Her sexual needs are being taken care of. Right now, that's all she cares about. Ring comes off when she needs another "husband".
This is what I pretty much said a day ago. But yes, she is fuvking other men. No feelings, just sex. Please see post 5. Thank you.penkitten said:no!
people who are divorced but still wear their wedding ring are people who are not ready for a relationship with anyone new. how can they be ready for someone new if they cant take off a ring that was given to them by someone else?
it doesn't even necessarily mean that they want their ex back... it may just mean that they are not ready to move on to anything new and that their divorce is fresh and they have issues to deal with on their own first.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.