here's the story. Been with gf for about a year Started talking again with gf about after a month. Everything is the same almost except the label is not there of us being gf and bf. Which is not that big of a deal to me. and Right now i know she has power cause she was telling me that we should just be friends for right now and I said im not going to talk to you anymore which is what my plan was if she wanted that but I cant just leave her, been through way too much to throw it away. I also find myself being really really nice almost too much. Anyways I asked her to come with me this weekened to the city I have house to stay down there. Im suppose to call her after work to set up when to get her she said yesterday she wants to go but I dont think she will say yes. What would she do if I didnt call her after work and just went to the city without her?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
ditching them to turn the tables too harsh?
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