here's the story. Been with gf for about a year Started talking again with gf about after a month. Everything is the same almost except the label is not there of us being gf and bf. Which is not that big of a deal to me. and Right now i know she has power cause she was telling me that we should just be friends for right now and I said im not going to talk to you anymore which is what my plan was if she wanted that but I cant just leave her, been through way too much to throw it away. I also find myself being really really nice almost too much. Anyways I asked her to come with me this weekened to the city I have house to stay down there. Im suppose to call her after work to set up when to get her she said yesterday she wants to go but I dont think she will say yes. What would she do if I didnt call her after work and just went to the city without her?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
ditching them to turn the tables too harsh?
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