"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ditching them to turn the tables too harsh?

bdr23

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here's the story. Been with gf for about a year Started talking again with gf about after a month. Everything is the same almost except the label is not there of us being gf and bf. Which is not that big of a deal to me. and Right now i know she has power cause she was telling me that we should just be friends for right now and I said im not going to talk to you anymore which is what my plan was if she wanted that but I cant just leave her, been through way too much to throw it away. I also find myself being really really nice almost too much. Anyways I asked her to come with me this weekened to the city I have house to stay down there. Im suppose to call her after work to set up when to get her she said yesterday she wants to go but I dont think she will say yes. What would she do if I didnt call her after work and just went to the city without her?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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frivolousz21

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thasts pretty hard ass to do!


maybe u should just tell her you want to go there to be with ur friends and have a good time.
 
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sounds like ur desperate for ass or somthing...she shouldnt be the 1 in control anyway...check out the DJ bible u might find some useful info in there
 

bdr23

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I aint desperate for as* i boned a couple of times already Im not all about sex. I like to work at relationships if i know there are no big problems that are involved.
 

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Try reading some material before coming here asking "How do I not be AFC with this girl?"
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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