here's the story. Been with gf for about a year Started talking again with gf about after a month. Everything is the same almost except the label is not there of us being gf and bf. Which is not that big of a deal to me. and Right now i know she has power cause she was telling me that we should just be friends for right now and I said im not going to talk to you anymore which is what my plan was if she wanted that but I cant just leave her, been through way too much to throw it away. I also find myself being really really nice almost too much. Anyways I asked her to come with me this weekened to the city I have house to stay down there. Im suppose to call her after work to set up when to get her she said yesterday she wants to go but I dont think she will say yes. What would she do if I didnt call her after work and just went to the city without her?