"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I wont go into specifics here, but what are some tips to filter through mixed messages and figure out what is actually being expressed by a girl?

For example, which of these hold the most value? least value?
Actions
Words
1st hand info
2nd hand info
Info from guy friends of girl
Info from girl friends of girl
Info from my guy friends
Info from my girl friends
Anything else you can think of

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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You pretty much put it in order there.. but I dunno some things are more valid with different people.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Naters said:
I wont go into specifics here, but what are some tips to filter through mixed messages and figure out what is actually being expressed by a girl?

For example, which of these hold the most value? least value?
Actions
Words
1st hand info
2nd hand info
Info from guy friends of girl
Info from girl friends of girl
Info from my guy friends
Info from my girl friends
Anything else you can think of

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  1. What she tells you after you ask her specific questions.
 
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Actions for me. I rarely listen to/remember what they say anyway. I'm always paying all my attention to her body language.
 
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Actions and mabye if your lucky what girl friend of her says.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Depends completely on the people.

Actions can be misleading if the girl is shy.

Friends might be treacherous, overzealous, etc.
 
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Good luck actually making a list, in all the interactions I've had with women, I've never been able to make out any specific pattern at all.
 
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