"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I wont go into specifics here, but what are some tips to filter through mixed messages and figure out what is actually being expressed by a girl?

For example, which of these hold the most value? least value?
Actions
Words
1st hand info
2nd hand info
Info from guy friends of girl
Info from girl friends of girl
Info from my guy friends
Info from my girl friends
Anything else you can think of

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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You pretty much put it in order there.. but I dunno some things are more valid with different people.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Naters said:
I wont go into specifics here, but what are some tips to filter through mixed messages and figure out what is actually being expressed by a girl?

For example, which of these hold the most value? least value?
Actions
Words
1st hand info
2nd hand info
Info from guy friends of girl
Info from girl friends of girl
Info from my guy friends
Info from my girl friends
Anything else you can think of

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  1. What she tells you after you ask her specific questions.
 
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Actions for me. I rarely listen to/remember what they say anyway. I'm always paying all my attention to her body language.
 
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Actions and mabye if your lucky what girl friend of her says.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Depends completely on the people.

Actions can be misleading if the girl is shy.

Friends might be treacherous, overzealous, etc.
 
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Good luck actually making a list, in all the interactions I've had with women, I've never been able to make out any specific pattern at all.
 
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