“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Discipline is a Muscle

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Master Don Juan
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Here's some good wisdom and motivation on training from Arnold:



So much of what we do on the road to getting strong is the attitude and commitment you want to have. Have the will power to kick @ss and take names in the gym. Keep training day in and day out. Get in one more rep! I promise you, you'll feel so much better and have a deeper appreciation for life.

NEVER STOP IMPROVING.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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This is great advice for lifting weights, or athletic training. Ever notice how motivational videos often are built around sports?

HOWEVER

I'd like to see some REAL motivational quotes/videos/etc. about real life circumstances. Unless you are the rare few, you can't make a career bodybuilding or in sports - you have to be talented from the get-go to do that. I'm not one of those guys. I enjoy playing sports and lifting weights, but I do so simply to stay in shape, not to push the envelope and change my life. I simply do not have the talent to make that happen.

That's why I kinda laugh at motivational stuff nowadays. Arnold became an actor and got elected for public office because he was already famous. His bodybuilding success paved the way for his acting which paved the way for politics. The guy was just a naturally gifted dude to begin with. Most of us don't have that ability. Now he wants to rave about discipline? Ha! Discipline is great, but let's not pretend that was his secret sauce. A lot of bodybuilders worked just as hard or harder than he did.

My point is - you can't just go out in the world and have 'discipline' and start succeeding. You have to apply that discipline towards something. I want to see more people helping others find their directions, outside of sports, which is easy.
 
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