"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Magnatolia

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Hey all,

I haven't any field experience, still trying to get over my anxiety. But I posted a question on a question/answer site on whether women preferred direct (came over because he found you atttractive) or indirect (treat you like an old friend, and asked for your number or a date at the end).

So far 6 for direct. The other four responses didn't actually answer the question.

I'm gonna go for the direct. The girl will most likely be flattered/impressed cos guys rarely say that - they either game her indirectly or catcall. You don't need to spend 10-15 minutes talking with her & building rapport to find out she's not interested, or she has a bf. And you don't have to ensure that you're giving off direct interest signs as she already knows.

And if you like to leave em hanging, this is perfect. Here's an example off my head:

You: "Hey, I'm on my way to catch the train, but you really caught my eye and I just had to say. So yeah, hi." If she gives a positive IOI, move on.

"We should get together sometime, see if you're the full package. What's your number?"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tomatoes

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Direct game does cut all the bull**** out.
 

blinkwatt

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Magnatolia trust me. Try it once and you will see the look on their faces and how they will look into your eyes trying to search and find out more about you.
 

Sean O

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Good post, Shezz. I agree that the opener is the tricky part, but after that it's a cakewalk.

For moving targets you have to stop them and slowly move your body so that you turn them around from the way that they were going initially...
Could you explain what you mean by "slowly move your body"?
 

Turncoat

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Magnatolia, my biggest, quickest and most potent pick-ups have been hard-hitting, fast and direct. No indirect bull****.

I SHOW AND TELL women i'm horny, I misbehave around them all the time, i grab their asses, and use ****y/funny continously, I argue with them and i generally show them a great time. This is direct game. I don't beat around the bush. I just throw everything I got, and I even tell them i'm a man they should avoid. I tell them am an a$$hole, a bastard, a guy who has no respect for them and they not only think i'm the sweetest guy they met, they tell me "I trust you more than any other guy". It's because i'm blatantly honest.

Trust me, save yourself the trouble and go direct. If your congruent, your rejection rate will be near zero. Results are much faster too.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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