"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Magnatolia

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Hey all,

I haven't any field experience, still trying to get over my anxiety. But I posted a question on a question/answer site on whether women preferred direct (came over because he found you atttractive) or indirect (treat you like an old friend, and asked for your number or a date at the end).

So far 6 for direct. The other four responses didn't actually answer the question.

I'm gonna go for the direct. The girl will most likely be flattered/impressed cos guys rarely say that - they either game her indirectly or catcall. You don't need to spend 10-15 minutes talking with her & building rapport to find out she's not interested, or she has a bf. And you don't have to ensure that you're giving off direct interest signs as she already knows.

And if you like to leave em hanging, this is perfect. Here's an example off my head:

You: "Hey, I'm on my way to catch the train, but you really caught my eye and I just had to say. So yeah, hi." If she gives a positive IOI, move on.

"We should get together sometime, see if you're the full package. What's your number?"
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tomatoes

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Direct game does cut all the bull**** out.
 

blinkwatt

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Magnatolia trust me. Try it once and you will see the look on their faces and how they will look into your eyes trying to search and find out more about you.
 

Sean O

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Good post, Shezz. I agree that the opener is the tricky part, but after that it's a cakewalk.

For moving targets you have to stop them and slowly move your body so that you turn them around from the way that they were going initially...
Could you explain what you mean by "slowly move your body"?
 

Turncoat

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Magnatolia, my biggest, quickest and most potent pick-ups have been hard-hitting, fast and direct. No indirect bull****.

I SHOW AND TELL women i'm horny, I misbehave around them all the time, i grab their asses, and use ****y/funny continously, I argue with them and i generally show them a great time. This is direct game. I don't beat around the bush. I just throw everything I got, and I even tell them i'm a man they should avoid. I tell them am an a$$hole, a bastard, a guy who has no respect for them and they not only think i'm the sweetest guy they met, they tell me "I trust you more than any other guy". It's because i'm blatantly honest.

Trust me, save yourself the trouble and go direct. If your congruent, your rejection rate will be near zero. Results are much faster too.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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