Magnatolia
Don Juan
Hey all,
I haven't any field experience, still trying to get over my anxiety. But I posted a question on a question/answer site on whether women preferred direct (came over because he found you atttractive) or indirect (treat you like an old friend, and asked for your number or a date at the end).
So far 6 for direct. The other four responses didn't actually answer the question.
I'm gonna go for the direct. The girl will most likely be flattered/impressed cos guys rarely say that - they either game her indirectly or catcall. You don't need to spend 10-15 minutes talking with her & building rapport to find out she's not interested, or she has a bf. And you don't have to ensure that you're giving off direct interest signs as she already knows.
And if you like to leave em hanging, this is perfect. Here's an example off my head:
You: "Hey, I'm on my way to catch the train, but you really caught my eye and I just had to say. So yeah, hi." If she gives a positive IOI, move on.
"We should get together sometime, see if you're the full package. What's your number?"
I haven't any field experience, still trying to get over my anxiety. But I posted a question on a question/answer site on whether women preferred direct (came over because he found you atttractive) or indirect (treat you like an old friend, and asked for your number or a date at the end).
So far 6 for direct. The other four responses didn't actually answer the question.
I'm gonna go for the direct. The girl will most likely be flattered/impressed cos guys rarely say that - they either game her indirectly or catcall. You don't need to spend 10-15 minutes talking with her & building rapport to find out she's not interested, or she has a bf. And you don't have to ensure that you're giving off direct interest signs as she already knows.
And if you like to leave em hanging, this is perfect. Here's an example off my head:
You: "Hey, I'm on my way to catch the train, but you really caught my eye and I just had to say. So yeah, hi." If she gives a positive IOI, move on.
"We should get together sometime, see if you're the full package. What's your number?"