"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dinner

Tweek_1984

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I'm chasing this lass at uni and was wondering whether I should ask her round to dinner one night and cook for us.

At the moment we're just like friends, who fancy each other pretending to be friends. I'm pretty sure she's waiting for me to make a move.

I've known this chick for a couple of years and I met her when I was at uni the first time round in '02. Basically, I didn't make a move on her.

Spo this time I don't want to let the chance slip. I'm on winter holiday at the moment so I have time to practice making something I'm not familiar with.

I was planning to make her a meal, flirt etc and then just break off after I've eaten. To keep her interested.

Anyone gone down this line before. I don't want to try and seem really mature and casual because I'm cooking a meal, I just want to create situation where we are alone and I'm in charge.

Any opinions about this angle?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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anonuser78

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just do it man. what's the worst that will happen? you're in a rut thinking about this too much. If you are so certain that you both have more than friends feelings toward each other, bit your tongue and do it. OR suprise her, invite her over and ask if she wants to help u make dinner...it will be romantic.. (bah).
 

tibbetts

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Why does she have to cook you something? Take her out to dinner to a resturant instead. Make her pay for half and that's it.
 

DeathDealer

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i can't answer this, these posts have huge afc red marks over it.
 

Tweek_1984

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Originally posted by DeathDealer
i can't answer this, these posts have huge afc red marks over it.
Then why make a contribution?

What do you really think of the idea?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Unbridled_1

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Although, I think it'd be better suited for a 2nd or 3rd date, I 'd say to try it out. There's no right or wrong, only doing nothing is wrong.
 
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