"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I'm chasing this lass at uni and was wondering whether I should ask her round to dinner one night and cook for us.

At the moment we're just like friends, who fancy each other pretending to be friends. I'm pretty sure she's waiting for me to make a move.

I've known this chick for a couple of years and I met her when I was at uni the first time round in '02. Basically, I didn't make a move on her.

Spo this time I don't want to let the chance slip. I'm on winter holiday at the moment so I have time to practice making something I'm not familiar with.

I was planning to make her a meal, flirt etc and then just break off after I've eaten. To keep her interested.

Anyone gone down this line before. I don't want to try and seem really mature and casual because I'm cooking a meal, I just want to create situation where we are alone and I'm in charge.

Any opinions about this angle?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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just do it man. what's the worst that will happen? you're in a rut thinking about this too much. If you are so certain that you both have more than friends feelings toward each other, bit your tongue and do it. OR suprise her, invite her over and ask if she wants to help u make dinner...it will be romantic.. (bah).
 
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Why does she have to cook you something? Take her out to dinner to a resturant instead. Make her pay for half and that's it.
 
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i can't answer this, these posts have huge afc red marks over it.
 
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Originally posted by DeathDealer
i can't answer this, these posts have huge afc red marks over it.
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Then why make a contribution?

What do you really think of the idea?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Although, I think it'd be better suited for a 2nd or 3rd date, I 'd say to try it out. There's no right or wrong, only doing nothing is wrong.
 
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