I really need serious help. I recently started debating. I can talk to anybody and everybody. But whenever I get on stage and start to give a speech in a room full of people. I just freeze. Can anyone tell me how I can solve this problem.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Different type of help needed from fellow DJ's
- Thread starter Moon Ram
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DavenJuan
Master Don Juan
dont think about it. cliche i know but it works.
i use to be in theater and just ignored the crowd.
what also works is look at the back of the room. stare at the back wall and inevitably you will forget about the crowd.
i use to be in theater and just ignored the crowd.
what also works is look at the back of the room. stare at the back wall and inevitably you will forget about the crowd.
The fear of believing you'll make a fool of yourself on stage.
COWARD!!!!!
Just imagine them naked....like thats gonna work.
Just note, most people don't even listen to lectures or speeches. So there is very little chance they would care what you do on stage.
And even if they laugh at you, you well entertained them anyway.
COWARD!!!!!
Just imagine them naked....like thats gonna work.
Just note, most people don't even listen to lectures or speeches. So there is very little chance they would care what you do on stage.
And even if they laugh at you, you well entertained them anyway.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.