I really need serious help. I recently started debating. I can talk to anybody and everybody. But whenever I get on stage and start to give a speech in a room full of people. I just freeze. Can anyone tell me how I can solve this problem.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Different type of help needed from fellow DJ's
- Thread starter Moon Ram
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
DavenJuan
Master Don Juan
dont think about it. cliche i know but it works.
i use to be in theater and just ignored the crowd.
what also works is look at the back of the room. stare at the back wall and inevitably you will forget about the crowd.
i use to be in theater and just ignored the crowd.
what also works is look at the back of the room. stare at the back wall and inevitably you will forget about the crowd.
The fear of believing you'll make a fool of yourself on stage.
COWARD!!!!!
Just imagine them naked....like thats gonna work.
Just note, most people don't even listen to lectures or speeches. So there is very little chance they would care what you do on stage.
And even if they laugh at you, you well entertained them anyway.
COWARD!!!!!
Just imagine them naked....like thats gonna work.
Just note, most people don't even listen to lectures or speeches. So there is very little chance they would care what you do on stage.
And even if they laugh at you, you well entertained them anyway.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.