I really need serious help. I recently started debating. I can talk to anybody and everybody. But whenever I get on stage and start to give a speech in a room full of people. I just freeze. Can anyone tell me how I can solve this problem.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Different type of help needed from fellow DJ's
- Thread starter Moon Ram
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
DavenJuan
Master Don Juan
dont think about it. cliche i know but it works.
i use to be in theater and just ignored the crowd.
what also works is look at the back of the room. stare at the back wall and inevitably you will forget about the crowd.
i use to be in theater and just ignored the crowd.
what also works is look at the back of the room. stare at the back wall and inevitably you will forget about the crowd.
The fear of believing you'll make a fool of yourself on stage.
COWARD!!!!!
Just imagine them naked....like thats gonna work.
Just note, most people don't even listen to lectures or speeches. So there is very little chance they would care what you do on stage.
And even if they laugh at you, you well entertained them anyway.
COWARD!!!!!
Just imagine them naked....like thats gonna work.
Just note, most people don't even listen to lectures or speeches. So there is very little chance they would care what you do on stage.
And even if they laugh at you, you well entertained them anyway.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.