You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yea but now that he’s gone let’s not let his name live onits like day and night
with richard == insults in his every thread lol
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Well,you do realize his ban was only temporary........only for two months. And two months can zip by in the blink of an eye.its like day and night
with richard == insults in his every thread lol
Oh, that explains a lot. I thought his ban was ONE month. I've been wondering why he wasn't back yet.Well,you do realize his ban was only temporary........only for two months.
WellHere's the difference I see:
Before the forum was all about Richard the Frog and Big Dave. Now it's just about Big Dave.
They should keep him out at least one more month. Force him to live.Oh, that explains a lot. I thought his ban was ONE month. I've been wondering why he wasn't back yet.
Both are on block so I never noticed lol.Here's the difference I see:
Before the forum was all about Richard the Frog and Big Dave. Now it's just about Big Dave.
Maybe he forgot about SS after he bought that Lambo, got his bionic d!ck, facial implants, broken leg extensions and his 2nd property to flip to a break even point.Well,you do realize his ban was only temporary........only for two months. And two months can zip by in the blink of an eye.
And to show you just how fast two months can fly by,if my calculations are correct,Mr. Frog should be making his return sometime within the next SEVEN to TEN DAYS.
So I suggest you soak up as much "positivity" from his absence as you can in the next week.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Got him on ignore too...its bliss.Here's the difference I see:
Before the forum was all about Richard the Frog and Big Dave. Now it's just about Big Dave.
Maybe he forgot about SS after he bought that Lambo, got his bionic d!ck, facial implants, broken leg extensions and his 2nd property to flip to a break even point.
Nothing wrong with my optimism anyways.
Didn't he ban himself?Lol,true...nothing wrong with a little optimism. I almost hate what I'm about to say,but I guess someone's gotta break the news......
Folks....RichardtheFrog has NEVER LEFT. He's been here the whole time. "R.U.G." is right...Richard still logs in 2 or 3 times a day.
Yes,he's banned....but he's STILL HERE.......he just can't post. In essence,he's on the outside with his face pressed up against a window watching the rest of us talk,discuss,and make threads/posts.
If you look at the top of this page,the VERY TOP....look where it says "home" "Forums" "What's new" and "Members".
Well if you click on "Forums",then look to the far right,you'll see where it has a list of all the members currently online.
Have a look sometime. Don't let the fact that he can't post make you think he's moved on and forgotten all about this place.....he's probably here more than some of you are.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Those two should hook up.
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Naw,we (us mods) had to show him the door.Didn't he ban himself?
Fvck you, you pvssy.It'd be easier if 30+ year old,supposedly "mature" men could conduct themselves with some kind of decency and civility,instead of running round going "fvck you" and calling every one "pvssies" every two seconds,but it be what it be.
and before frog it was bigneilHere's the difference I see:
Before the forum was all about Richard the Frog and Big Dave. Now it's just about Big Dave.
I wish the ignore button got used more often.No because I had him on ignore
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.