You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yea but now that he’s gone let’s not let his name live onits like day and night
with richard == insults in his every thread lol
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Well,you do realize his ban was only temporary........only for two months. And two months can zip by in the blink of an eye.its like day and night
with richard == insults in his every thread lol
Oh, that explains a lot. I thought his ban was ONE month. I've been wondering why he wasn't back yet.Well,you do realize his ban was only temporary........only for two months.
WellHere's the difference I see:
Before the forum was all about Richard the Frog and Big Dave. Now it's just about Big Dave.
They should keep him out at least one more month. Force him to live.Oh, that explains a lot. I thought his ban was ONE month. I've been wondering why he wasn't back yet.
Both are on block so I never noticed lol.Here's the difference I see:
Before the forum was all about Richard the Frog and Big Dave. Now it's just about Big Dave.
Maybe he forgot about SS after he bought that Lambo, got his bionic d!ck, facial implants, broken leg extensions and his 2nd property to flip to a break even point.Well,you do realize his ban was only temporary........only for two months. And two months can zip by in the blink of an eye.
And to show you just how fast two months can fly by,if my calculations are correct,Mr. Frog should be making his return sometime within the next SEVEN to TEN DAYS.
So I suggest you soak up as much "positivity" from his absence as you can in the next week.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Got him on ignore too...its bliss.Here's the difference I see:
Before the forum was all about Richard the Frog and Big Dave. Now it's just about Big Dave.
Maybe he forgot about SS after he bought that Lambo, got his bionic d!ck, facial implants, broken leg extensions and his 2nd property to flip to a break even point.
Nothing wrong with my optimism anyways.
Didn't he ban himself?Lol,true...nothing wrong with a little optimism. I almost hate what I'm about to say,but I guess someone's gotta break the news......
Folks....RichardtheFrog has NEVER LEFT. He's been here the whole time. "R.U.G." is right...Richard still logs in 2 or 3 times a day.
Yes,he's banned....but he's STILL HERE.......he just can't post. In essence,he's on the outside with his face pressed up against a window watching the rest of us talk,discuss,and make threads/posts.
If you look at the top of this page,the VERY TOP....look where it says "home" "Forums" "What's new" and "Members".
Well if you click on "Forums",then look to the far right,you'll see where it has a list of all the members currently online.
Have a look sometime. Don't let the fact that he can't post make you think he's moved on and forgotten all about this place.....he's probably here more than some of you are.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Those two should hook up.
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Naw,we (us mods) had to show him the door.Didn't he ban himself?
Fvck you, you pvssy.It'd be easier if 30+ year old,supposedly "mature" men could conduct themselves with some kind of decency and civility,instead of running round going "fvck you" and calling every one "pvssies" every two seconds,but it be what it be.
and before frog it was bigneilHere's the difference I see:
Before the forum was all about Richard the Frog and Big Dave. Now it's just about Big Dave.
I wish the ignore button got used more often.No because I had him on ignore
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.