She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Yea but now that he’s gone let’s not let his name live onits like day and night
with richard == insults in his every thread lol
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Well,you do realize his ban was only temporary........only for two months. And two months can zip by in the blink of an eye.its like day and night
with richard == insults in his every thread lol
Oh, that explains a lot. I thought his ban was ONE month. I've been wondering why he wasn't back yet.Well,you do realize his ban was only temporary........only for two months.
WellHere's the difference I see:
Before the forum was all about Richard the Frog and Big Dave. Now it's just about Big Dave.
They should keep him out at least one more month. Force him to live.Oh, that explains a lot. I thought his ban was ONE month. I've been wondering why he wasn't back yet.
Both are on block so I never noticed lol.Here's the difference I see:
Before the forum was all about Richard the Frog and Big Dave. Now it's just about Big Dave.
Maybe he forgot about SS after he bought that Lambo, got his bionic d!ck, facial implants, broken leg extensions and his 2nd property to flip to a break even point.Well,you do realize his ban was only temporary........only for two months. And two months can zip by in the blink of an eye.
And to show you just how fast two months can fly by,if my calculations are correct,Mr. Frog should be making his return sometime within the next SEVEN to TEN DAYS.
So I suggest you soak up as much "positivity" from his absence as you can in the next week.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Got him on ignore too...its bliss.Here's the difference I see:
Before the forum was all about Richard the Frog and Big Dave. Now it's just about Big Dave.
Maybe he forgot about SS after he bought that Lambo, got his bionic d!ck, facial implants, broken leg extensions and his 2nd property to flip to a break even point.
Nothing wrong with my optimism anyways.
Didn't he ban himself?Lol,true...nothing wrong with a little optimism. I almost hate what I'm about to say,but I guess someone's gotta break the news......
Folks....RichardtheFrog has NEVER LEFT. He's been here the whole time. "R.U.G." is right...Richard still logs in 2 or 3 times a day.
Yes,he's banned....but he's STILL HERE.......he just can't post. In essence,he's on the outside with his face pressed up against a window watching the rest of us talk,discuss,and make threads/posts.
If you look at the top of this page,the VERY TOP....look where it says "home" "Forums" "What's new" and "Members".
Well if you click on "Forums",then look to the far right,you'll see where it has a list of all the members currently online.
Have a look sometime. Don't let the fact that he can't post make you think he's moved on and forgotten all about this place.....he's probably here more than some of you are.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Those two should hook up.
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Naw,we (us mods) had to show him the door.Didn't he ban himself?
Fvck you, you pvssy.It'd be easier if 30+ year old,supposedly "mature" men could conduct themselves with some kind of decency and civility,instead of running round going "fvck you" and calling every one "pvssies" every two seconds,but it be what it be.
and before frog it was bigneilHere's the difference I see:
Before the forum was all about Richard the Frog and Big Dave. Now it's just about Big Dave.
I wish the ignore button got used more often.No because I had him on ignore
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.