Thunderstruck7
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if you dont talk to a girl for about a week or two who you've talked to for months and she says "did you miss me?" what would be a good response?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Did you miss me? what to say
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
"Faded Image
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Hell naw!!!!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
"Not as much as you missed me" (said with a ****y grin if you're face to face).
That's exactly what I normally say to chicks I haven't seen for a while, followed by "come here and give me a big hug & kiss". I usually say it first so I haven't had to make a response to that. I'd probably say something like "come give me a big hug and find out" with a wink, then I'd give her a bear hug and spin her around. If it's on the phone, I'd say "Not as much as you miss me" and proceed to make a date.
3countriesPlan
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i second thatMavrick said:
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Sometimes simplicity has the most effect . . .
She - "Hey, did you miss me?"
You - "No."
She - "Really?"
You - "Bring wings in volcano sauce and peanut butter pie. Knock when you get here." Click.
She - "Hey, did you miss me?"
You - "No."
She - "Really?"
You - "Bring wings in volcano sauce and peanut butter pie. Knock when you get here." Click.
Dergz
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her: did u miss me?
me: 'wats not to miss?'
me: 'wats not to miss?'
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
DON'T ask if they missed you or even jest about if they missed you too. I hate to report this, but it does send an underlying message that you're fishing to hear that they missed you, which can signal neediness, and if your gal is the type that likes a confident guy, that's not a good message to send. Best to stay off that track.
Things are crazy like that nowadays.
Things are crazy like that nowadays.
Just be exaggerated. If you take her seriously you fail. However you make the vibe fun, it's good.
"did you miss me?"
a) "huh... who are you?"
b) OMGWTFBBQ YOU CAN'T IMAGINE HOW MUCH, I MEAN AFTER THE STROKE AND THE HEART ATTACKS I WAS THINKING ABOUT GOING TO HOSPITAL, THEN SOME DUDE FROM ETHIOPIA CAME ALONG AND ASKED ME TO LEND FIVE MINUTES TO SAVE HIS DYING FAMILY --- THEN (gesticulating wildly like a guy on stage acting a tragedy) JESUS CAME DOWN AND OFFERED ME THE CONDENSED EDITIONS OF THE AKASHIC RECORDS ON HD DVD FORMAT --- But I said, naw, I have a girl with a really sexy nose to go and make out with, go find your own fuc'king prophet.
Then I died, was reborn in the past, discovered my life purpose as coming over here to make out with you, and did so.
"did you miss me?"
a) "huh... who are you?"
b) OMGWTFBBQ YOU CAN'T IMAGINE HOW MUCH, I MEAN AFTER THE STROKE AND THE HEART ATTACKS I WAS THINKING ABOUT GOING TO HOSPITAL, THEN SOME DUDE FROM ETHIOPIA CAME ALONG AND ASKED ME TO LEND FIVE MINUTES TO SAVE HIS DYING FAMILY --- THEN (gesticulating wildly like a guy on stage acting a tragedy) JESUS CAME DOWN AND OFFERED ME THE CONDENSED EDITIONS OF THE AKASHIC RECORDS ON HD DVD FORMAT --- But I said, naw, I have a girl with a really sexy nose to go and make out with, go find your own fuc'king prophet.
Then I died, was reborn in the past, discovered my life purpose as coming over here to make out with you, and did so.
appasionata
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I think it really doesn't matter much,
tell her whatever you'd like to tell her.
It's the mindset you should wear, not memorized words or behaviours.
I think it really doesn't matter much,
tell her whatever you'd like to tell her.
It's the mindset you should wear, not memorized words or behaviours.