“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

Did you miss me? what to say

Thunderstruck7

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 19, 2008
Messages
31
Reaction score
0
if you dont talk to a girl for about a week or two who you've talked to for months and she says "did you miss me?" what would be a good response?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

faiNt`

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 22, 2008
Messages
243
Reaction score
1
I think I would say something like ..

"Yeah, let me show you how much .."

Or

"A little, did you miss me?"

(or course she will say yes)

"Prove it :)"

Either of those should lead to fun time :p
 

Faded Image

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 17, 2004
Messages
428
Reaction score
7
Age
45
Location
Fort Bragg, NC
Hell naw!!!!
 

lordson

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 7, 2005
Messages
470
Reaction score
4
Location
Australia
"It was as if i was missing an arm and a leg"

so its a yes, but also they're not sure if its a no as well
 

Mavrick

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 1, 2008
Messages
902
Reaction score
43
I'd convey that I've just been so busy that I really didn't have time to miss her. That will only turn her interest up more.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Jitterbug

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 12, 2008
Messages
3,197
Reaction score
140
That's exactly what I normally say to chicks I haven't seen for a while, followed by "come here and give me a big hug & kiss". I usually say it first so I haven't had to make a response to that. I'd probably say something like "come give me a big hug and find out" with a wink, then I'd give her a bear hug and spin her around. If it's on the phone, I'd say "Not as much as you miss me" and proceed to make a date.
 

3countriesPlan

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 11, 2007
Messages
671
Reaction score
29
Location
Beijing/Seoul/Portland
Mavrick said:
I'd convey that I've just been so busy that I really didn't have time to miss her. That will only turn her interest up more.
i second that
 

KarmaSutra

Banned
Joined
Oct 13, 2005
Messages
4,818
Reaction score
142
Age
53
Location
Padron Reserve maduro in hand while finishing my b
Sometimes simplicity has the most effect . . .

She - "Hey, did you miss me?"

You - "No."

She - "Really?"

You - "Bring wings in volcano sauce and peanut butter pie. Knock when you get here." Click.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Mr. Me

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 19, 2007
Messages
1,356
Reaction score
84
DON'T ask if they missed you or even jest about if they missed you too. I hate to report this, but it does send an underlying message that you're fishing to hear that they missed you, which can signal neediness, and if your gal is the type that likes a confident guy, that's not a good message to send. Best to stay off that track.

Things are crazy like that nowadays.
 

Gubby

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 13, 2005
Messages
601
Reaction score
18
Age
36
Location
Spain
Just be exaggerated. If you take her seriously you fail. However you make the vibe fun, it's good.

"did you miss me?"

a) "huh... who are you?"

b) OMGWTFBBQ YOU CAN'T IMAGINE HOW MUCH, I MEAN AFTER THE STROKE AND THE HEART ATTACKS I WAS THINKING ABOUT GOING TO HOSPITAL, THEN SOME DUDE FROM ETHIOPIA CAME ALONG AND ASKED ME TO LEND FIVE MINUTES TO SAVE HIS DYING FAMILY --- THEN (gesticulating wildly like a guy on stage acting a tragedy) JESUS CAME DOWN AND OFFERED ME THE CONDENSED EDITIONS OF THE AKASHIC RECORDS ON HD DVD FORMAT --- But I said, naw, I have a girl with a really sexy nose to go and make out with, go find your own fuc'king prophet.

Then I died, was reborn in the past, discovered my life purpose as coming over here to make out with you, and did so.
 

appasionata

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 19, 2008
Messages
37
Reaction score
0
desperate

I think it really doesn't matter much,

tell her whatever you'd like to tell her.

It's the mindset you should wear, not memorized words or behaviours.
 
Top