Thunderstruck7
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if you dont talk to a girl for about a week or two who you've talked to for months and she says "did you miss me?" what would be a good response?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Did you miss me? what to say
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
"Faded Image
Senior Don Juan
Hell naw!!!!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
"Not as much as you missed me" (said with a ****y grin if you're face to face).
That's exactly what I normally say to chicks I haven't seen for a while, followed by "come here and give me a big hug & kiss". I usually say it first so I haven't had to make a response to that. I'd probably say something like "come give me a big hug and find out" with a wink, then I'd give her a bear hug and spin her around. If it's on the phone, I'd say "Not as much as you miss me" and proceed to make a date.
3countriesPlan
Master Don Juan
i second thatMavrick said:
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Sometimes simplicity has the most effect . . .
She - "Hey, did you miss me?"
You - "No."
She - "Really?"
You - "Bring wings in volcano sauce and peanut butter pie. Knock when you get here." Click.
She - "Hey, did you miss me?"
You - "No."
She - "Really?"
You - "Bring wings in volcano sauce and peanut butter pie. Knock when you get here." Click.
Dergz
Don Juan
her: did u miss me?
me: 'wats not to miss?'
me: 'wats not to miss?'
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
DON'T ask if they missed you or even jest about if they missed you too. I hate to report this, but it does send an underlying message that you're fishing to hear that they missed you, which can signal neediness, and if your gal is the type that likes a confident guy, that's not a good message to send. Best to stay off that track.
Things are crazy like that nowadays.
Things are crazy like that nowadays.
Just be exaggerated. If you take her seriously you fail. However you make the vibe fun, it's good.
"did you miss me?"
a) "huh... who are you?"
b) OMGWTFBBQ YOU CAN'T IMAGINE HOW MUCH, I MEAN AFTER THE STROKE AND THE HEART ATTACKS I WAS THINKING ABOUT GOING TO HOSPITAL, THEN SOME DUDE FROM ETHIOPIA CAME ALONG AND ASKED ME TO LEND FIVE MINUTES TO SAVE HIS DYING FAMILY --- THEN (gesticulating wildly like a guy on stage acting a tragedy) JESUS CAME DOWN AND OFFERED ME THE CONDENSED EDITIONS OF THE AKASHIC RECORDS ON HD DVD FORMAT --- But I said, naw, I have a girl with a really sexy nose to go and make out with, go find your own fuc'king prophet.
Then I died, was reborn in the past, discovered my life purpose as coming over here to make out with you, and did so.
"did you miss me?"
a) "huh... who are you?"
b) OMGWTFBBQ YOU CAN'T IMAGINE HOW MUCH, I MEAN AFTER THE STROKE AND THE HEART ATTACKS I WAS THINKING ABOUT GOING TO HOSPITAL, THEN SOME DUDE FROM ETHIOPIA CAME ALONG AND ASKED ME TO LEND FIVE MINUTES TO SAVE HIS DYING FAMILY --- THEN (gesticulating wildly like a guy on stage acting a tragedy) JESUS CAME DOWN AND OFFERED ME THE CONDENSED EDITIONS OF THE AKASHIC RECORDS ON HD DVD FORMAT --- But I said, naw, I have a girl with a really sexy nose to go and make out with, go find your own fuc'king prophet.
Then I died, was reborn in the past, discovered my life purpose as coming over here to make out with you, and did so.
appasionata
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I think it really doesn't matter much,
tell her whatever you'd like to tell her.
It's the mindset you should wear, not memorized words or behaviours.
I think it really doesn't matter much,
tell her whatever you'd like to tell her.
It's the mindset you should wear, not memorized words or behaviours.