"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Did this UFO cause a break-up of this couple?

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The man took off and left this woman alone.

If you were in this guy's place what would you have done? Are UFOs now causing break-ups?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This thread is rather silent. I'll throw in the first analysis. I'd say they probably weren't compatible.

Now, I heard comments below on the video that is harsly critical for this guy. However, put yourself in the guy's perspective. He may have run in and expected that she came in just behind him, turned around right away and saw she was gone. The video only shows the sequence of events from the lady's perspective so that leads to bias. In her experience only 2-3 seconds have passed, and of course the video is rolling. But from the perspective of the guy, she's gone for like hours and he can't find her and her children are anxious and he thinks she's crazy (ie she just appears back there and comes up with a story that just 3 seconds have passed) and does not want to see her again.

Do you think they genuinely were not compatible and this UFO just was a catalyst to an eventual break-up, or did it actually cause such a high level of confusion that both parties were unable to trust each other and actually caused the break-up? I actually laughed at this, because its like mischief if you look at it, like a bad prank.
 

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She's a lulu. We have not been visited by aliens, and I am one of the biggest proponents that We Are Not Alone. The fact is that these days we would detect anything from an exocivilization that would physically come to visit.

Oh, and if observing from a far enough location from big-city lights, clouds are dark, and they could easily obscure the night sky.
 

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She's a lulu. We have not been visited by aliens, and I am one of the biggest proponents that We Are Not Alone. The fact is that these days we would detect anything from an exocivilization that would physically come to visit.

Oh, and if observing from a far enough location from big-city lights, clouds are dark, and they could easily obscure the night sky.
Some of these abductee women are like hb9s. Look at this one...


We thought we only had to worry about chads and simps? Would you want to just have this lady?
 

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There muat be less male competition with these women since they will likely spook other guys away. Possible way to find a hb to break a dry spell.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She's a lulu. We have not been visited by aliens, and I am one of the biggest proponents that We Are Not Alone. The fact is that these days we would detect anything from an exocivilization that would physically come to visit.

Oh, and if observing from a far enough location from big-city lights, clouds are dark, and they could easily obscure the night sky.
Nah man
 

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It's over for afraid-of-aliens-cels.
 

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She's a lulu. We have not been visited by aliens, and I am one of the biggest proponents that We Are Not Alone. The fact is that these days we would detect anything from an exocivilization that would physically come to visit.

Oh, and if observing from a far enough location from big-city lights, clouds are dark, and they could easily obscure the night sky.
Unless they are already here and have been since the beginning.
 

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Unless they are already here and have been since the beginning.
Inter-gender dynamics in reaction to UFOs is the focus for the purpose of this thread, not whether aliens are real or have been here.

The most important question in such matters is how hot do you think these women who are targeted are? Personally, I think the second lady is hotter than the first. Which of those two women do you think is hotter?
 

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Reminds me a bit of the movie Downhill, with Will Ferrell, which was based on the Swedish movie Force Majeure. A family is on vacation and a small avalanche hits where they are eating outside. The dad runs off, avoiding the avalanche, but the wife begins to doubt him as a father, man, and protector, since he abandoned them when he fled. I'm sure he thought it was every man for himself, and that everyone would run off on their own, but that wasn't the case. Anyway, no one was harmed, but the wife resented him for it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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