You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Some of these abductee women are like hb9s. Look at this one...She's a lulu. We have not been visited by aliens, and I am one of the biggest proponents that We Are Not Alone. The fact is that these days we would detect anything from an exocivilization that would physically come to visit.
Oh, and if observing from a far enough location from big-city lights, clouds are dark, and they could easily obscure the night sky.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Nah manShe's a lulu. We have not been visited by aliens, and I am one of the biggest proponents that We Are Not Alone. The fact is that these days we would detect anything from an exocivilization that would physically come to visit.
Oh, and if observing from a far enough location from big-city lights, clouds are dark, and they could easily obscure the night sky.
Unless they are already here and have been since the beginning.She's a lulu. We have not been visited by aliens, and I am one of the biggest proponents that We Are Not Alone. The fact is that these days we would detect anything from an exocivilization that would physically come to visit.
Oh, and if observing from a far enough location from big-city lights, clouds are dark, and they could easily obscure the night sky.
Inter-gender dynamics in reaction to UFOs is the focus for the purpose of this thread, not whether aliens are real or have been here.Unless they are already here and have been since the beginning.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.