Did I just get rejected?

[dude99]

Hey everyone. Not sure if you guys are familiar with snapchat but on it, you can post something for all of your followers to view for up to 24 hours. The girl just posted something saying "someone text me!". I was gonna wait to see what this week holds and finally get her number on Friday but could this be my chance to ask for it? I read part of the DJ Bible and it said something about just going for your chance and not overthinking things and "rejection is better than regret" yet here I am overthinking whether I should ask for her number right now.

Is this like the perfect chance to get it? and even if I did get it what would I say to keep the conversation going and seeming like "the great catch"

I have a day from now to make a decision on whether I should respond to her snapchat asking for her number.

Why so much processing.

Do you want her number ? Ask.

Do you want to take her out? Ask.

Her reply to both these will be all the info you need. Then you know not to waste any more time on a dead issue or pursue an interested girl.

 

[MrOctober]

I wouldn't have a friend mention anything. That's HS stuff. Not to be rude but it is. It kinda ruined your mystique dude. Because most likely he said something like "ohh so and so is single blah blah". Wack. I wouldn't say your rejected yet but it's not a good start.

 

[brad jarry]

Hey guys, sorry for responding so late. Not sure if anyone will see this but I got to thinking earlier. I know she rejected me and all but I still like her. There's something about her that keeps pulling me, so to speak. It's been weeks and I still can't get her off my mind, I'm not even irritated about her not responding to my message. We still say hey to each other in the halls. It's weird though because I barely know her but being honest, I can't see myself with any other girl in my school other than her. I know I should save my feelings and move on but I don't know.

I was thinking about working on myself from now maybe to march-ish. You know, working out, reading the DJ Bible, bettering myself and then trying again. Maybe with better looks and a better outlook on life, I can try to get her again. What do you guys honestly think?

 

[brad jarry]

Don't feel bad about the "rejection". There are two possible outcomes to this scenario now.

1. She is busy at the time being and will get back to you later in the day.

2. She will not reply.

If she gets back to you later in the day, you go on from there.

If she doesn't, then oh well, at least you tried your best, yeah? You may try to explain the "rejection" to yourself at a later point with what ifs — "what if I'd texted her sooner?" "what if I'd not asked my friend to set us up?" — but do not fall into that trap. You did great and made progress today. You're far off from where most men stand right now. Right now, while you feel relieved what you did what you could, there's thousands of men out there struggling to make the same decision you just did so be proud of yourself.

You may not have her number at the end of the day but for least you won't waste hours before going to sleep contemplating about (how to) ask her out and whatnot. You've done your part and if she isn't interested there's nothing else you can do.

Never forget that YOU ARE THE GREAT CATCH.

Hey guys, sorry for responding so late. Not sure if anyone will see this but I got to thinking earlier. I know she rejected me and all but I still like her. There's something about her that keeps pulling me, so to speak. It's been weeks and I still can't get her off my mind, I'm not even irritated about her not responding to my message. We still say hey to each other in the halls. It's weird though because I barely know her but being honest, I can't see myself with any other girl in my school other than her. I know I should save my feelings and move on but I don't know.
I know "I'm the great catch" and all but was thinking about working on myself from now maybe to march-ish. You know, working out, reading the DJ Bible, bettering myself and then trying again. Maybe with better looks and a better outlook on life, I can try to get her again. What do you guys honestly think?

 

[brad jarry]

After all, if it's to be, its up to me

 

[Dan Bautista]

Hey guys, sorry for responding so late. Not sure if anyone will see this but I got to thinking earlier. I know she rejected me and all but I still like her. There's something about her that keeps pulling me, so to speak. It's been weeks and I still can't get her off my mind, I'm not even irritated about her not responding to my message. We still say hey to each other in the halls. It's weird though because I barely know her but being honest, I can't see myself with any other girl in my school other than her. I know I should save my feelings and move on but I don't know.
I know "I'm the great catch" and all but was thinking about working on myself from now maybe to march-ish. You know, working out, reading the DJ Bible, bettering myself and then trying again. Maybe with better looks and a better outlook on life, I can try to get her again. What do you guys honestly think?

It is inevitable for you to be developing feelings towards her, specially when you're focusing everything in your life toward a single woman — when you shouldn't be making women your number 1 priority. You can't get her off your mind because you do not believe yourself capable of finding someone else better than her (in the present time).

Getting into shape is a great idea, you're also investing in good health. You definitely should read the DJ Bible and better yourself. Bettering yourself should always be a priority regardless of whether women are involved or not. You will eventually stop bettering yourself for the girls, realize that there is much more to life and start for yourself.

You may or may not pull her back at the end, when you become a different person than who you are now. My advice, yeah, do workout and better yourself. At the end, you may get her back or you may find someone even better.

You still don't, however, believe that YOU ARE THE GREAT CATCH.

 

[dude99]

Hey guys, sorry for responding so late. Not sure if anyone will see this but I got to thinking earlier. I know she rejected me and all but I still like her. There's something about her that keeps pulling me, so to speak. It's been weeks and I still can't get her off my mind, I'm not even irritated about her not responding to my message. We still say hey to each other in the halls. It's weird though because I barely know her but being honest, I can't see myself with any other girl in my school other than her. I know I should save my feelings and move on but I don't know.

I was thinking about working on myself from now maybe to march-ish. You know, working out, reading the DJ Bible, bettering myself and then trying again. Maybe with better looks and a better outlook on life, I can try to get her again. What do you guys honestly think?

Read the dj bible yes. Hit the gym yes. Better your self yes. Waste your time on a girl that isn't interested...no.