"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Stallionstud

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just curious how I could have made this work.

So i went snowboarding, I’m waiting in line for the lift and wouldn’t you know there’s a solid 10 in front on me. I started talking about I don’t even know what, she’s friendly smiling laughing. A dude(her boyfriend) messing with his board behind us gets her attention. They argue a little she gets out of line (damn) they argue more. Next thing I see her stomping off. Apparently after the winey bad boy. They angerly argue and motion at each other 100’ away in a crowded area before I lose sight of her.

The whole time I’m just like.... I want this chic. fvck that dude he is dropping the ball. My game is not there yet though.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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marmel75

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There is nothing you could have done in that situation. You would have had to catch her by herself for a few minites and grabbed her number.
 

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that face when you get ****blocked by fate itself
 

Murk

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Girls argue with bf's all the time, it's not an automatic in for you.

You say the guy was "dropping the ball" but all you saw was an argument and her stomping off after him and by the sounds of it he still walked off from her. Should he be sucking her toes in public because she's a 10?
 

Stallionstud

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Yeah the deck was stacked against me on that one. Maybe he walked off with her but that weak behavior looks like opportunity to me.

One of these days.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Murk

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Women argue with men they aren't leaving.

It's when they won't argue/talk at all and get indifferent......that's when they hit the road.
Having said that, my ex admittedly caused arguments so I would end it... little did she know... I was far too content with mediocrity to leave her!
 
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