There was this girl in my class that I talked to and we met up a couple of times out of class. We met up for a project in the class but we had excellent eye contact and chemistry. She also kept touching my arm and shoulders. I sent her an email to have a good chrisitmas break on Tuesday and she sent me one back saying the same yesterday. Should I have asked her out for after Christmas break or will the break be too long of a time and I'll just move on to other girls?
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You definitely should have made a move, any move. BUT fear not, as it is not too late... I don't know when you plan to see her again, but when you do, be sure to run some C&F on her.
The only thing that matters is that she does not see you like a friend... so don't act like one. I'd recommend stopping the emails.
I'd also recommend that you see other girls while she's out of the picture -- should keep you clear of oneitis-dom.
Best of luck.
-Bill
The only thing that matters is that she does not see you like a friend... so don't act like one. I'd recommend stopping the emails.
I'd also recommend that you see other girls while she's out of the picture -- should keep you clear of oneitis-dom.
Best of luck.
-Bill
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I agree with BIll, you are getting a tad bit of a one-itis going on.. .Careful. Don't go overboard unless you're certain you will get booty, if you get low booty action wavelengths from her, bow out asap.