There was this girl in my class that I talked to and we met up a couple of times out of class. We met up for a project in the class but we had excellent eye contact and chemistry. She also kept touching my arm and shoulders. I sent her an email to have a good chrisitmas break on Tuesday and she sent me one back saying the same yesterday. Should I have asked her out for after Christmas break or will the break be too long of a time and I'll just move on to other girls?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Did I blow this one?
- Thread starter SamMalone
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You definitely should have made a move, any move. BUT fear not, as it is not too late... I don't know when you plan to see her again, but when you do, be sure to run some C&F on her.
The only thing that matters is that she does not see you like a friend... so don't act like one. I'd recommend stopping the emails.
I'd also recommend that you see other girls while she's out of the picture -- should keep you clear of oneitis-dom.
Best of luck.
-Bill
The only thing that matters is that she does not see you like a friend... so don't act like one. I'd recommend stopping the emails.
I'd also recommend that you see other girls while she's out of the picture -- should keep you clear of oneitis-dom.
Best of luck.
-Bill
DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
I agree with BIll, you are getting a tad bit of a one-itis going on.. .Careful. Don't go overboard unless you're certain you will get booty, if you get low booty action wavelengths from her, bow out asap.