There was this girl in my class that I talked to and we met up a couple of times out of class. We met up for a project in the class but we had excellent eye contact and chemistry. She also kept touching my arm and shoulders. I sent her an email to have a good chrisitmas break on Tuesday and she sent me one back saying the same yesterday. Should I have asked her out for after Christmas break or will the break be too long of a time and I'll just move on to other girls?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Did I blow this one?
- Thread starter SamMalone
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You definitely should have made a move, any move. BUT fear not, as it is not too late... I don't know when you plan to see her again, but when you do, be sure to run some C&F on her.
The only thing that matters is that she does not see you like a friend... so don't act like one. I'd recommend stopping the emails.
I'd also recommend that you see other girls while she's out of the picture -- should keep you clear of oneitis-dom.
Best of luck.
-Bill
The only thing that matters is that she does not see you like a friend... so don't act like one. I'd recommend stopping the emails.
I'd also recommend that you see other girls while she's out of the picture -- should keep you clear of oneitis-dom.
Best of luck.
-Bill
DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
I agree with BIll, you are getting a tad bit of a one-itis going on.. .Careful. Don't go overboard unless you're certain you will get booty, if you get low booty action wavelengths from her, bow out asap.