Been with my gf for a little over a year in Nov and bday is during that same time also. Been living with her for a couple of months now. I love her and want to do something special for her. She is somewhat materialisitic but I cant complain because I am really materialisitic. How AFC is it to buy her something nice like jewelery or would it be better to take her out to a nice dinner go do something really cool like sky diving or take a little trip
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Diamonds or dinner?
- Thread starter aix237
- Start date