Been with my gf for a little over a year in Nov and bday is during that same time also. Been living with her for a couple of months now. I love her and want to do something special for her. She is somewhat materialisitic but I cant complain because I am really materialisitic. How AFC is it to buy her something nice like jewelery or would it be better to take her out to a nice dinner go do something really cool like sky diving or take a little trip
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Diamonds or dinner?
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