Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I'm gonna bump this up, and yes I know it's 7 years old. I am wondering the same thing, about the masculinity, not the lack of libido.Lysander said:Although Pook goes on at length about extreme masculinity and testosterone as a source of attraction and success with the ladies, he does not go into the specifics of how to attain that masculine vibe, and sexual aura.
I train with the weights and eat heavy ( I am 6 foot, 175 lbs at around 12-15% bodyfat), but it has not made a significant impact on my testosterone levels, and I still have very little libido. Are there any other tips you can give a desexualised AFC such as myself?
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.