Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I'm gonna bump this up, and yes I know it's 7 years old. I am wondering the same thing, about the masculinity, not the lack of libido.Lysander said:Although Pook goes on at length about extreme masculinity and testosterone as a source of attraction and success with the ladies, he does not go into the specifics of how to attain that masculine vibe, and sexual aura.
I train with the weights and eat heavy ( I am 6 foot, 175 lbs at around 12-15% bodyfat), but it has not made a significant impact on my testosterone levels, and I still have very little libido. Are there any other tips you can give a desexualised AFC such as myself?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.