"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Dealing with ppl who devaluate yourself

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We know we'll encounter all kinds of people in our lives.

Some speak badly of everyone, including you.

If you can't avoid contact with them (for work or other reasons), have you ever wondered if, since hearing bad things about you upsets you, you should go no contact with them, both in real life (just say hello), and especially if they could still learn information about you (through friends of friends and social media)?

For example, posting content on your social media, with them following you and ready to gossip and make fun of you, makes you feel nervous or ashamed, or even a little insecure, because they love hanging out with other people and ruining others reputation.

Is it right to block these people in that case? Even if they can see your life through another friend's phone or in other ways...

What measures do you take?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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plumber said:
is this like a junior high bully ??
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Isn't this common among "successfull" people in your country?
Italy, it's just full of those people.
And you can see them usually at leadership roles.

Also.. main thing.. whywould women desire a man like that
 
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jhonny9546 said:
Isn't this common among "successfull" people in your country?
Italy, it's just full of those people.
And you can see them usually at leadership roles.

Also.. main thing.. whywould women desire a man like that
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no, not at all. open bully ends up with issues they can not manage. for me "successfull" usually want to get to know me and at least try to demonstrate goodness and goodwill even at personal cost. in a few cases its real, but if not real a good fake is required.

related to this. i see some that treat workers well and others that treat like slaves. but that's different than your topic.
 
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@jhonny9546 "What measures do you take?"

Remain steadfast in my commitment to revive the long lost art of simply ignoring sh-t ONLINE that one finds disagreeable. This isn't remotely comparable to someone walking up to us in the street or in a bar, then hurling a relentless stream of invective our way
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What acquaintances and people think of you is non of your business. Bad gossip is better than no publicity. Have fun and enjoy the limelight baby lol
 
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