"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wait, maybe btownbuck2012 is right, maybe he's a total stud who did everything perfect, and it was just REALLY bad luck that this girl turned out to be a complete f*cking lunatic.
All I know is that the major difference between you and I is that I don't need to be in my 40s making six figures to pull hot ass. That blonde escort you keep posting pictures of around here is with you because of all the star wars tokens you can give her. You're not that legitimately stupid are you?

You can only spend so long putting charts and diagrams together before you have to face reality Neil. I know it's hard for an engineer like yourself to understand that, but it's true.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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All I know is that the major difference between you and I is that I don't need to be in my 40s making six figures to pull hot ass. That blonde escort you keep posting pictures of around here is with you because of all the star wars tokens you can give her. You're not that legitimately stupid are you?

You can only spend so long putting charts and diagrams together before you have to face reality Neil. I know it's hard for an engineer like yourself to understand that, but it's true.
So what? The biggest player in the city I live in is a lawyer who goes to all the bars. He leaves big tips to all the hot bartenders. Everybody knows his success with women is based on his money. And he drives a Jaguar. There's different ways to do everything.
 

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So what? The biggest player in the city I live in is a lawyer who goes to all the bars. He leaves big tips to all the hot bartenders. Everybody knows his success with women is based on his money. And he drives a Jaguar. There's different ways to do everything.
Sure. However, I don't go around shoving down people's throat that my way is the best way, unlike neil which is why I wrote what I did.
 
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Sure. However, I don't go around shoving down people's throat that my way is the best way, unlike neil which is why I wrote what I did.
Oh well. I don't really care.

But I do know that I'm aging and I think having money would make me many times more attractive. I'm already 30.
 

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You know the type. Attractive as all hell. Surrounded by suitors of varying game levels and attractiveness. Self proclaimed 10/10s. Reminding other guys around them that they don't need you because you're replaceable. Narcissistic to cartoonish levels, down to the "you deal with my bad behavior or I'll find somebody who will" level.

All my life I believed that they were untouchable and I was inferior to them.

Now that I've learned from you guys...I still feel inferior to them because I don't know how to deal with them.

What do you do when a girl like this comes your way?

Spoiler: my SMV isn't exactly high yet, still in-training.

1. I'm going to assume that SMV is like your swag or aura. Both are a combination of your confidence and energy.

2. If you are not there yet then leave them ho's alone. They will only crush your game. Right now you're thinking with the wrong brain. That monkey brain below is ruling you and getting you so amped up that you made a post about it.

3. Ignore them as if they don't exist.

4. Shyiit on em. Talk crap to them if they come into your environment. This will give you the practice of coming in above them.

5. As long as your mentality is below theirs they will NEVER see you as a equal. These females date the same or up.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Oh well. I don't really care.

But I do know that I'm aging and I think having money would make me many times more attractive. I'm already 30.
Of course it does, but it's not a must have.
 

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you gotta be on guard and prepared to talk sh1t them you stick out. simple.
 
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