"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Wait, maybe btownbuck2012 is right, maybe he's a total stud who did everything perfect, and it was just REALLY bad luck that this girl turned out to be a complete f*cking lunatic.
All I know is that the major difference between you and I is that I don't need to be in my 40s making six figures to pull hot ass. That blonde escort you keep posting pictures of around here is with you because of all the star wars tokens you can give her. You're not that legitimately stupid are you?

You can only spend so long putting charts and diagrams together before you have to face reality Neil. I know it's hard for an engineer like yourself to understand that, but it's true.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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All I know is that the major difference between you and I is that I don't need to be in my 40s making six figures to pull hot ass. That blonde escort you keep posting pictures of around here is with you because of all the star wars tokens you can give her. You're not that legitimately stupid are you?

You can only spend so long putting charts and diagrams together before you have to face reality Neil. I know it's hard for an engineer like yourself to understand that, but it's true.
So what? The biggest player in the city I live in is a lawyer who goes to all the bars. He leaves big tips to all the hot bartenders. Everybody knows his success with women is based on his money. And he drives a Jaguar. There's different ways to do everything.
 

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So what? The biggest player in the city I live in is a lawyer who goes to all the bars. He leaves big tips to all the hot bartenders. Everybody knows his success with women is based on his money. And he drives a Jaguar. There's different ways to do everything.
Sure. However, I don't go around shoving down people's throat that my way is the best way, unlike neil which is why I wrote what I did.
 
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Sure. However, I don't go around shoving down people's throat that my way is the best way, unlike neil which is why I wrote what I did.
Oh well. I don't really care.

But I do know that I'm aging and I think having money would make me many times more attractive. I'm already 30.
 

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You know the type. Attractive as all hell. Surrounded by suitors of varying game levels and attractiveness. Self proclaimed 10/10s. Reminding other guys around them that they don't need you because you're replaceable. Narcissistic to cartoonish levels, down to the "you deal with my bad behavior or I'll find somebody who will" level.

All my life I believed that they were untouchable and I was inferior to them.

Now that I've learned from you guys...I still feel inferior to them because I don't know how to deal with them.

What do you do when a girl like this comes your way?

Spoiler: my SMV isn't exactly high yet, still in-training.

1. I'm going to assume that SMV is like your swag or aura. Both are a combination of your confidence and energy.

2. If you are not there yet then leave them ho's alone. They will only crush your game. Right now you're thinking with the wrong brain. That monkey brain below is ruling you and getting you so amped up that you made a post about it.

3. Ignore them as if they don't exist.

4. Shyiit on em. Talk crap to them if they come into your environment. This will give you the practice of coming in above them.

5. As long as your mentality is below theirs they will NEVER see you as a equal. These females date the same or up.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Oh well. I don't really care.

But I do know that I'm aging and I think having money would make me many times more attractive. I'm already 30.
Of course it does, but it's not a must have.
 

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you gotta be on guard and prepared to talk sh1t them you stick out. simple.
 
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