"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dealing with Narcissistic Alpha girls?

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Wait, maybe btownbuck2012 is right, maybe he's a total stud who did everything perfect, and it was just REALLY bad luck that this girl turned out to be a complete f*cking lunatic.
All I know is that the major difference between you and I is that I don't need to be in my 40s making six figures to pull hot ass. That blonde escort you keep posting pictures of around here is with you because of all the star wars tokens you can give her. You're not that legitimately stupid are you?

You can only spend so long putting charts and diagrams together before you have to face reality Neil. I know it's hard for an engineer like yourself to understand that, but it's true.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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All I know is that the major difference between you and I is that I don't need to be in my 40s making six figures to pull hot ass. That blonde escort you keep posting pictures of around here is with you because of all the star wars tokens you can give her. You're not that legitimately stupid are you?

You can only spend so long putting charts and diagrams together before you have to face reality Neil. I know it's hard for an engineer like yourself to understand that, but it's true.
So what? The biggest player in the city I live in is a lawyer who goes to all the bars. He leaves big tips to all the hot bartenders. Everybody knows his success with women is based on his money. And he drives a Jaguar. There's different ways to do everything.
 

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So what? The biggest player in the city I live in is a lawyer who goes to all the bars. He leaves big tips to all the hot bartenders. Everybody knows his success with women is based on his money. And he drives a Jaguar. There's different ways to do everything.
Sure. However, I don't go around shoving down people's throat that my way is the best way, unlike neil which is why I wrote what I did.
 
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Sure. However, I don't go around shoving down people's throat that my way is the best way, unlike neil which is why I wrote what I did.
Oh well. I don't really care.

But I do know that I'm aging and I think having money would make me many times more attractive. I'm already 30.
 

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You know the type. Attractive as all hell. Surrounded by suitors of varying game levels and attractiveness. Self proclaimed 10/10s. Reminding other guys around them that they don't need you because you're replaceable. Narcissistic to cartoonish levels, down to the "you deal with my bad behavior or I'll find somebody who will" level.

All my life I believed that they were untouchable and I was inferior to them.

Now that I've learned from you guys...I still feel inferior to them because I don't know how to deal with them.

What do you do when a girl like this comes your way?

Spoiler: my SMV isn't exactly high yet, still in-training.

1. I'm going to assume that SMV is like your swag or aura. Both are a combination of your confidence and energy.

2. If you are not there yet then leave them ho's alone. They will only crush your game. Right now you're thinking with the wrong brain. That monkey brain below is ruling you and getting you so amped up that you made a post about it.

3. Ignore them as if they don't exist.

4. Shyiit on em. Talk crap to them if they come into your environment. This will give you the practice of coming in above them.

5. As long as your mentality is below theirs they will NEVER see you as a equal. These females date the same or up.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Oh well. I don't really care.

But I do know that I'm aging and I think having money would make me many times more attractive. I'm already 30.
Of course it does, but it's not a must have.
 

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you gotta be on guard and prepared to talk sh1t them you stick out. simple.
 
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