"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dealing with Narcissistic Alpha girls?

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Wait, maybe btownbuck2012 is right, maybe he's a total stud who did everything perfect, and it was just REALLY bad luck that this girl turned out to be a complete f*cking lunatic.
All I know is that the major difference between you and I is that I don't need to be in my 40s making six figures to pull hot ass. That blonde escort you keep posting pictures of around here is with you because of all the star wars tokens you can give her. You're not that legitimately stupid are you?

You can only spend so long putting charts and diagrams together before you have to face reality Neil. I know it's hard for an engineer like yourself to understand that, but it's true.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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All I know is that the major difference between you and I is that I don't need to be in my 40s making six figures to pull hot ass. That blonde escort you keep posting pictures of around here is with you because of all the star wars tokens you can give her. You're not that legitimately stupid are you?

You can only spend so long putting charts and diagrams together before you have to face reality Neil. I know it's hard for an engineer like yourself to understand that, but it's true.
So what? The biggest player in the city I live in is a lawyer who goes to all the bars. He leaves big tips to all the hot bartenders. Everybody knows his success with women is based on his money. And he drives a Jaguar. There's different ways to do everything.
 

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So what? The biggest player in the city I live in is a lawyer who goes to all the bars. He leaves big tips to all the hot bartenders. Everybody knows his success with women is based on his money. And he drives a Jaguar. There's different ways to do everything.
Sure. However, I don't go around shoving down people's throat that my way is the best way, unlike neil which is why I wrote what I did.
 
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Sure. However, I don't go around shoving down people's throat that my way is the best way, unlike neil which is why I wrote what I did.
Oh well. I don't really care.

But I do know that I'm aging and I think having money would make me many times more attractive. I'm already 30.
 

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You know the type. Attractive as all hell. Surrounded by suitors of varying game levels and attractiveness. Self proclaimed 10/10s. Reminding other guys around them that they don't need you because you're replaceable. Narcissistic to cartoonish levels, down to the "you deal with my bad behavior or I'll find somebody who will" level.

All my life I believed that they were untouchable and I was inferior to them.

Now that I've learned from you guys...I still feel inferior to them because I don't know how to deal with them.

What do you do when a girl like this comes your way?

Spoiler: my SMV isn't exactly high yet, still in-training.

1. I'm going to assume that SMV is like your swag or aura. Both are a combination of your confidence and energy.

2. If you are not there yet then leave them ho's alone. They will only crush your game. Right now you're thinking with the wrong brain. That monkey brain below is ruling you and getting you so amped up that you made a post about it.

3. Ignore them as if they don't exist.

4. Shyiit on em. Talk crap to them if they come into your environment. This will give you the practice of coming in above them.

5. As long as your mentality is below theirs they will NEVER see you as a equal. These females date the same or up.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Oh well. I don't really care.

But I do know that I'm aging and I think having money would make me many times more attractive. I'm already 30.
Of course it does, but it's not a must have.
 

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you gotta be on guard and prepared to talk sh1t them you stick out. simple.
 
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