hey fellow Djs, I know we've all been there, when a girl likes you but you find her unattractive. I know of two girls right now that like me, both send me text messages saying "lets hang out" or "youre sexy" etc... how do you guys deal with girls you dont want anything to do with?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Dealing with girls you find unattractive?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Simple. You don't respond to their messages. When you run into them and they ask you why, you just respond that you've been extremely busy and other white lies. That's how it works. Eventually they either get the message or they lose interest.
Only when they persist, you might have to turn out the heavy artillery of outright rejection or telling them off in a polite manner.
Then again, they can be used to improve your game (you're not anxious because you don't want anything from them) or gain access to their hot friends. Or course, this sort of subterfuge is something that has to click with your honour.
Good luck.
Only when they persist, you might have to turn out the heavy artillery of outright rejection or telling them off in a polite manner.
Then again, they can be used to improve your game (you're not anxious because you don't want anything from them) or gain access to their hot friends. Or course, this sort of subterfuge is something that has to click with your honour.
Good luck.
Alexander the Great said:Simple. You don't respond to their messages. When you run into them and they ask you why, you just respond that you've been extremely busy and other white lies. That's how it works. Eventually they either get the message or they lose interest.
Only when they persist, you might have to turn out the heavy artillery of outright rejection or telling them off in a polite manner.
Then again, they can be used to improve your game (you're not anxious because you don't want anything from them) or gain access to their hot friends. Or course, this sort of subterfuge is something that has to click with your honour.
Good luck.
TURN THIS AROUND, this is the same crap women says to us guys -- GET IT?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Isn't it best to tell them they are not your type? At least you're being straight with them.
Having been ignored in the past theres nothing worse then ignoring somebody IMO. They'll respect you more too if you're straight with them.
You don't have to tell them they're ugly but just say theres no chemistry on your part.
Be a man.
Having been ignored in the past theres nothing worse then ignoring somebody IMO. They'll respect you more too if you're straight with them.
You don't have to tell them they're ugly but just say theres no chemistry on your part.
Be a man.
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It works both ways.
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This is the best thing to do. Something I always advise myself. But if TS has to ask what to do on a forum, I don't think he's ready to do a man's thing yet.slaog said:
Then again, why not start difficult? Everything's easy afterwards then.