hey fellow Djs, I know we've all been there, when a girl likes you but you find her unattractive. I know of two girls right now that like me, both send me text messages saying "lets hang out" or "youre sexy" etc... how do you guys deal with girls you dont want anything to do with?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Dealing with girls you find unattractive?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Simple. You don't respond to their messages. When you run into them and they ask you why, you just respond that you've been extremely busy and other white lies. That's how it works. Eventually they either get the message or they lose interest.
Only when they persist, you might have to turn out the heavy artillery of outright rejection or telling them off in a polite manner.
Then again, they can be used to improve your game (you're not anxious because you don't want anything from them) or gain access to their hot friends. Or course, this sort of subterfuge is something that has to click with your honour.
Good luck.
Only when they persist, you might have to turn out the heavy artillery of outright rejection or telling them off in a polite manner.
Then again, they can be used to improve your game (you're not anxious because you don't want anything from them) or gain access to their hot friends. Or course, this sort of subterfuge is something that has to click with your honour.
Good luck.
Alexander the Great said:Simple. You don't respond to their messages. When you run into them and they ask you why, you just respond that you've been extremely busy and other white lies. That's how it works. Eventually they either get the message or they lose interest.
Only when they persist, you might have to turn out the heavy artillery of outright rejection or telling them off in a polite manner.
Then again, they can be used to improve your game (you're not anxious because you don't want anything from them) or gain access to their hot friends. Or course, this sort of subterfuge is something that has to click with your honour.
Good luck.
TURN THIS AROUND, this is the same crap women says to us guys -- GET IT?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Isn't it best to tell them they are not your type? At least you're being straight with them.
Having been ignored in the past theres nothing worse then ignoring somebody IMO. They'll respect you more too if you're straight with them.
You don't have to tell them they're ugly but just say theres no chemistry on your part.
Be a man.
Having been ignored in the past theres nothing worse then ignoring somebody IMO. They'll respect you more too if you're straight with them.
You don't have to tell them they're ugly but just say theres no chemistry on your part.
Be a man.
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"Let's just be friends"
It works both ways.
It works both ways.
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This is the best thing to do. Something I always advise myself. But if TS has to ask what to do on a forum, I don't think he's ready to do a man's thing yet.slaog said:
Then again, why not start difficult? Everything's easy afterwards then.