hey fellow Djs, I know we've all been there, when a girl likes you but you find her unattractive. I know of two girls right now that like me, both send me text messages saying "lets hang out" or "youre sexy" etc... how do you guys deal with girls you dont want anything to do with?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dealing with girls you find unattractive?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Simple. You don't respond to their messages. When you run into them and they ask you why, you just respond that you've been extremely busy and other white lies. That's how it works. Eventually they either get the message or they lose interest.
Only when they persist, you might have to turn out the heavy artillery of outright rejection or telling them off in a polite manner.
Then again, they can be used to improve your game (you're not anxious because you don't want anything from them) or gain access to their hot friends. Or course, this sort of subterfuge is something that has to click with your honour.
Good luck.
Only when they persist, you might have to turn out the heavy artillery of outright rejection or telling them off in a polite manner.
Then again, they can be used to improve your game (you're not anxious because you don't want anything from them) or gain access to their hot friends. Or course, this sort of subterfuge is something that has to click with your honour.
Good luck.
Alexander the Great said:Simple. You don't respond to their messages. When you run into them and they ask you why, you just respond that you've been extremely busy and other white lies. That's how it works. Eventually they either get the message or they lose interest.
Only when they persist, you might have to turn out the heavy artillery of outright rejection or telling them off in a polite manner.
Then again, they can be used to improve your game (you're not anxious because you don't want anything from them) or gain access to their hot friends. Or course, this sort of subterfuge is something that has to click with your honour.
Good luck.
TURN THIS AROUND, this is the same crap women says to us guys -- GET IT?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Isn't it best to tell them they are not your type? At least you're being straight with them.
Having been ignored in the past theres nothing worse then ignoring somebody IMO. They'll respect you more too if you're straight with them.
You don't have to tell them they're ugly but just say theres no chemistry on your part.
Be a man.
Having been ignored in the past theres nothing worse then ignoring somebody IMO. They'll respect you more too if you're straight with them.
You don't have to tell them they're ugly but just say theres no chemistry on your part.
Be a man.
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"Let's just be friends"
It works both ways.
It works both ways.
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This is the best thing to do. Something I always advise myself. But if TS has to ask what to do on a forum, I don't think he's ready to do a man's thing yet.slaog said:
Then again, why not start difficult? Everything's easy afterwards then.