"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dealing With Disrespect And Game Playing

soulforge

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If a chick is playing games, or is disrespecful to you..


how quickly would you drop her ass?

Would you try to correct her bahaviour, or easier just to Next her..


I,m finding the sooner you move on, the better it is
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Rather than starting up a brand new thread, why not refer to any one of the multitude of responses provided by a variety of different people answering the same exact question you posed god knows how many times now?
 

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You need to be more specific.
 

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El Payaso said:
You need to be more specific.

I,m just asking in general.. sometimes a girl will disrespect you, but do it in a jokey type of fashion.. i think i need to toughen up in this area..
 

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A woman who loves you will not disrespect you. If you are being disrespected, do not assume that the she 'doesn't understand how you feel".

And that all you need to do is 'communicate' how you feel. BULL SH!T!

Let me tell you the real deal if you have not already figured this out. She doesn't give a rat's @ss how you feel. Women are not programmed in a Northern European, Anglo-Saxon culture to give a cr@p about how men 'feel'. All they really care about is how things effect them, and and minor children they might have.... but make no mistake about it.... if a woman loves a man... really loves a man, she would toss her children under the bus... unless they are his kids of course.

So when a woman disrespects you... it is because she has NO RESPECT FOR YOU. Walk the fvck away.... don't look back.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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soulforge said:
If a chick is playing games, or is disrespecful to you..


how quickly would you drop her ass?

Would you try to correct her bahaviour, or easier just to Next her..


I,m finding the sooner you move on, the better it is
I find the best response is more disrespect. Especially since such a woman is basically worthless outside of arm candy and sexual release. So treat her that way.

Whether you NEXT her or not depends on the context and level of the disrespect. But generally its two strikes and you're out. You might excuse the first incident because she might be ignorant of your status as a non-beta. But if it happens again, disappear and don't look back.

Remember that since the vast majority of men today are beta loser co-dependent b!tches.. most women default to treating all men this way until they prove otherwise.
 

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I assume you mean a girl not in a committed relationship with you?
All depends on how badly you want to bang her brother. I personally could give two ****s what some female thinks of me at this point in my life, so I will continue to pursue her until she tells me to **** off. I dont care if it makes me looks bad. In the past when I actually cared about what women thought of me, I would walk away the moment she blew me off a few times.

Guys confuse women respecting you with having an overall lack self respect. TOTALLY different things. do whatever the **** you feel like......if that means driving an hour to ask a girl out whos rejected you five times in a row do it! What's beta is actually caring about what these *****es think of you.

Took me a long time to see the light.....
 

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captain55 said:
I assume you mean a girl not in a committed relationship with you?
All depends on how badly you want to bang her brother. I personally could give two ****s what some female thinks of me at this point in my life, so I will continue to pursue her until she tells me to **** off. I dont care if it makes me looks bad. In the past when I actually cared about what women thought of me, I would walk away the moment she blew me off a few times.

Guys confuse women respecting you with having an overall lack self respect. TOTALLY different things. do whatever the **** you feel like......if that means driving an hour to ask a girl out whos rejected you five times in a row do it! What's beta is actually caring about what these *****es think of you.

Took me a long time to see the light.....

in a commited relationship, that shiit would not go down too well at all... but yeh i see your point.. if she was just a girl you want to bang, then yeh who gives a fuk what she thinks of you
 

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I usually won't give a sh!t cuz I'm usually pretty confident in whatever I say and do. But if she pokes fun at something out of my control or makes fun of my family, that's a big no no. but then again, why would she make fun of something like that in the first place.

If they genuinely despise you, stay away from them. Unless they start talking sh!t about you behind your back. A girl did that to me once, but then I made her life hell by just a few casual remarks. I think she liked me though.......lol
 

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Time is valuable. If she is being flaky, disrespectful, saying stupid stuff like " What does that mean? or I don't get it or Ok.." after you explained something pretty clearly to her then its time to just allocate your time on something else. Investors don't invest in stocks for crap companies with no hope for the future, don't invest your time in a broad with no hope for the future
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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