Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
El Payaso said:You need to be more specific.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I find the best response is more disrespect. Especially since such a woman is basically worthless outside of arm candy and sexual release. So treat her that way.soulforge said:If a chick is playing games, or is disrespecful to you..
how quickly would you drop her ass?
Would you try to correct her bahaviour, or easier just to Next her..
I,m finding the sooner you move on, the better it is
captain55 said:I assume you mean a girl not in a committed relationship with you?
All depends on how badly you want to bang her brother. I personally could give two ****s what some female thinks of me at this point in my life, so I will continue to pursue her until she tells me to **** off. I dont care if it makes me looks bad. In the past when I actually cared about what women thought of me, I would walk away the moment she blew me off a few times.
Guys confuse women respecting you with having an overall lack self respect. TOTALLY different things. do whatever the **** you feel like......if that means driving an hour to ask a girl out whos rejected you five times in a row do it! What's beta is actually caring about what these *****es think of you.
Took me a long time to see the light.....
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.