"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dealing With Disrespect And Game Playing
- Thread starter soulforge
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Between_The_Lines
Master Don Juan
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
And that all you need to do is 'communicate' how you feel. BULL SH!T!
Let me tell you the real deal if you have not already figured this out. She doesn't give a rat's @ss how you feel. Women are not programmed in a Northern European, Anglo-Saxon culture to give a cr@p about how men 'feel'. All they really care about is how things effect them, and and minor children they might have.... but make no mistake about it.... if a woman loves a man... really loves a man, she would toss her children under the bus... unless they are his kids of course.
So when a woman disrespects you... it is because she has NO RESPECT FOR YOU. Walk the fvck away.... don't look back.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I find the best response is more disrespect. Especially since such a woman is basically worthless outside of arm candy and sexual release. So treat her that way.soulforge said:
Whether you NEXT her or not depends on the context and level of the disrespect. But generally its two strikes and you're out. You might excuse the first incident because she might be ignorant of your status as a non-beta. But if it happens again, disappear and don't look back.
Remember that since the vast majority of men today are beta loser co-dependent b!tches.. most women default to treating all men this way until they prove otherwise.
All depends on how badly you want to bang her brother. I personally could give two ****s what some female thinks of me at this point in my life, so I will continue to pursue her until she tells me to **** off. I dont care if it makes me looks bad. In the past when I actually cared about what women thought of me, I would walk away the moment she blew me off a few times.
Guys confuse women respecting you with having an overall lack self respect. TOTALLY different things. do whatever the **** you feel like......if that means driving an hour to ask a girl out whos rejected you five times in a row do it! What's beta is actually caring about what these *****es think of you.
Took me a long time to see the light.....
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
If they genuinely despise you, stay away from them. Unless they start talking sh!t about you behind your back. A girl did that to me once, but then I made her life hell by just a few casual remarks. I think she liked me though.......lol
Cloudtopsun2100
Senior Don Juan
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.