Dealing with declining libido as you age

[ubercat]

Heheh I take any complaints from women as a good sign. If she stopped complaining I d be worried she d stopped breathing.

 

[ubercat]

@mrgoodstuff maybe add the pom to your list.

Being an old fart I d agree with the power walking. I used to say sports but since I got a sports hernia from 30 years of competitive tennis I d say you need the walking and stretching to be ready for those explosive movements.

 

[ubercat]

Btw if we re talking wiener health two components of the Mediterranean diet green peppers and uncooked olive oil protect against prostate cancer.

They re also good for blood flow which of course means stronger boners.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Btw if we re talking wiener health two components of the Mediterranean diet green peppers and uncooked olive oil protect against prostate cancer.

They re also good for blood flow which of course means stronger boners.

So sense your "older", how bad is a "ball breaking", "negative", controlling wife that is not very kind for your c0ck health? Say she even cut you off of sex 4 years ago, no hugs, kisses, hand jobs, blow jobs, nothing. In the house with essentially a dominant male in your space. How bad is that for a mans psyche and his erections?

 

[ubercat]

Lethal and I mean that literally as it will impact all aspects of your health. I think a lot of what we do here is making sure we have an inbuilt b1tch alarm. If a chick disrespects me first offence I LL reassure as they are inherently insecure creatures. Second offence alarm goes off silence and distance. 3rd offence my rage becomes icy cold and ejection plan is activated.

Very similar to any prepping really: fire zones lines of defence and if it's untenable fast fallback to alternate retreat.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Lethal and I mean that literally as it will impact all aspects of your health. I think a lot of what we do here is making sure we have an inbuilt b1tch alarm. If a chick disrespects me first offence I LL reassure as they are inherently insecure creatures. Second offence alarm goes off silence and distance. 3rd offence my rage becomes icy cold and ejection plan is activated.

Very similar to any prepping really: fire zones lines of defence and if it's untenable fast fallback to alternate retreat.

True, the way you handle it is how stringent a man has to be! In my "Prince Harry" thread, his bald spot has doubled in size since 2018 marriage to Meghan. His hair is also looking like he's undergoing an impossible amount of stress in a situation that he is powerless. Stress is a bytch. They stress men out to control them.

 

[Visionist]

If a woman made me lose my hair I'd throw her down a well.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

If a woman made me lose my hair I'd throw her down a well.

Tell most men that lol

 

[Reyaj]

I read somewhere, can't remember where so can't cite it...but that ejaculate from fapping is biochemically different from that of sex. Scientists don't know why. I'm guessing being in the presence of a female pushes some different buttons that you can't simulate alone.

do you mean in terms of the actual sperm being different or the feeling of orgasm?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Since my testosterone dropped to below minimum I can still get raging hard-ons even if a girl is simply sexting me. She could be miles away inviting me over and I'll be hard as alabaster before even getting in the car.

That's with just one, ruined testicle. No sperm.

If I'm fvcking a girl and I get any attitude from her, any bítchiness, I lose my boner almost instantly. Condoms don't help either.

Exactly. And the sneaky ones know how to give you an "attitude" without saying anything with their "body". Often times what was your babe, got in a competition with you and for control she will "beat your dyck down into the dirt". That sex you was so proud of before, she's going to trash it for you.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

do you mean in terms of the actual sperm being different or the feeling of orgasm?

What goes on in your mind and body is quite different and it's proven by science. Being a successfully sexual male with females will raise your confidence, dopamine levels, will raise your testosterone levels, your body will FEEL and look better. The science measured hormone levels in the body, and was able to determine how the mind was affected differently by hooking up EEG electrodes to the skull.

Ejaculation due to masturbation is quite different and if it's your only form of sex you are training yourself for failure with women.

 

[Visionist]

What were the results in men who had hooked up versus men who were having sex in a marriage or relationship?

Before the lockdown I was whoring often and afterwards, assuming the punt went well and she wasn't a cvnt, I would feel a lot more carefree around women, looking randoms in the eye whereas I usually try not to feed their egos by looking. One time I told a girl next to me on the subway "a smile is worth a thousand duckfaces" as she was browsing a library of her own duckface pictures on her phone. She twitched, offended.

 

[Lookatu]

Nothing TRT can’t fix . Personally i do believe after certain age TRT should be a must .

TRT to me is an easy way out but certainly nothing wrong with it if you can afford it, want fast results, and look the best you can with minimal effort.
For me personally, I prefer to try to maintain/boost my testosterone naturally through nutrition and exercise specifically targeted for older 40+ yo guys. I do believe though that you definitely should take supplements/vitamins after 40 as it's nearly impossible to feel energized, alert, etc. all naturally.
Went through a bunch of various supplements and currently, I'm trying to stay simple and minimal as possible. Rainbow multivitamin, Vitamin D, ZMA seems to do it for me. Earlier I was on D-Aspartic acid and it really helped me personally but I still feel good after I stopped using it for a few months. YMMV. I may start using it again if I feel slugglish or feel my testosterone is going down. In addition, D-Aspartic acid basically stopped any additional hair from falling out. I used to get quite a few hairs in the tub when I took a shower. After I took that, no more hair falls out.

 

[Visionist]

D-Aspartic Acid, gotcha. I wonder if I can get that without a prescription here.

What actually is Testosterone Replacement Therapy? I've never heard of it in Italy.

 

[Lookatu]

NSX-R, I was saying the part of the equation that you aren't thinking about is that T-levels are not solely a response due to "aging". I was pointing out a bunch of men T is lowered due to their ENVIRONMENT. Wife wears the pants, shut him off sex, treats him worse than dirt and year after year he dutifully does not cheat....

I think this definitely plays a role but for me, I think it can be a question of which came first, chicken or the egg syndrome.
As you know, if you have low T or it falls off as you age, you become more psychologically docile, content, agreeable(yes honey...), etc. We also know stress can raise cortisol levels which in turn reduces testosterone levels. So theoretically if your T fell and you became more docile and possibly start exhibiting beta traits that you never had before, this could turn off your wife and have her overstep her boundaries and look down at you with a pathetic look since you've changed. But on the other hand, if you had a bad wife to start with, she is the one that could've played a hand at lowering your testosterone levels to begin with by giving you all that stress. I'm not sure if I'm conveying this correctly for anyone to understand it...

 

[Lookatu]

D-Aspartic Acid, gotcha. I wonder if I can get that without a prescription here.

What actually is Testosterone Replacement Therapy? I've never heard of it in Italy.

It can be found anywhere. I get the big powder bag from Amazon. I wouldn't recommend the capsules as you have to take many of them. I just used a teaspoon and mixed it in with some orange juice everyday. 2 week on, 1 week off. The first couple off weeks, you might actually feel weak again compared to previous weeks as a FYI.

TRT is like a lower dosage of steroids but it is controlled and prescribed in a custom dosage monitored by your doctor. It can be very expensive though and can be administered several ways, patch, oral, injections. Many say the injection is the best and most effective delivery method though. I just can't see myself spending that kind of money and injecting myself a couple times a week for the rest of my life though. It's not very sustainable model if you ask me.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I think this definitely plays a role but for me, I think it can be a question of which came first, chicken or the egg syndrome.
As you know, if you have low T or it falls off as you age, you become more psychologically docile, content, agreeable(yes honey...), etc. We also know stress can raise cortisol levels which in turn reduces testosterone levels. So theoretically if your T fell and you became more docile and possibly start exhibiting beta traits that you never had before, this could turn off your wife and have her overstep her boundaries and look down at you with a pathetic look since you've changed. But on the other hand, if you had a bad wife to start with, she is the one that could've played a hand at lowering your testosterone levels to begin with by giving you all that stress. I'm not sure if I'm conveying this correctly for anyone to understand it...

Conditioning for control occurs over time. So she triggered it, because her instinct is to be over the top of you.

I think this definitely plays a role but for me, I think it can be a question of which came first, chicken or the egg syndrome.
As you know, if you have low T or it falls off as you age, you become more psychologically docile, content, agreeable(yes honey...), etc. We also know stress can raise cortisol levels which in turn reduces testosterone levels. So theoretically if your T fell and you became more docile and possibly start exhibiting beta traits that you never had before, this could turn off your wife and have her overstep her boundaries and look down at you with a pathetic look since you've changed. But on the other hand, if you had a bad wife to start with, she is the one that could've played a hand at lowering your testosterone levels to begin with by giving you all that stress. I'm not sure if I'm conveying this correctly for anyone to understand it...

A bad wife will do your head in, and it can be so bad that you feel like 1/4-1/2 the man and your dyck won't get hard. This was the real reason for Viagra and Cialis in my guess.

 

[Lookatu]

A bad wife will do your head in, and it can be so bad that you feel like 1/4-1/2 the man and your dyck won't get hard. This was the real reason for Viagra and Cialis in my guess.

Well I never had a bad wife so can't really speak to the declining testosterone due to it. As for Viagra and Cialis, I think originally it was for old dudes that's sick of having sex with their wives and couldn't get it up easily. But now, it's mainly to help out everyone looking at and fapping to internet porn, when they can actually have real sex.

 

[NSX-R]

TRT to me is an easy way out but certainly nothing wrong with it if you can afford it, want fast results, and look the best you can with minimal effort.
For me personally, I prefer to try to maintain/boost my testosterone naturally through nutrition and exercise specifically targeted for older 40+ yo guys. I do believe though that you definitely should take supplements/vitamins after 40 as it's nearly impossible to feel energized, alert, etc. all naturally.
Went through a bunch of various supplements and currently, I'm trying to stay simple and minimal as possible. Rainbow multivitamin, Vitamin D, ZMA seems to do it for me. Earlier I was on D-Aspartic acid and it really helped me personally but I still feel good after I stopped using it for a few months. YMMV. I may start using it again if I feel slugglish or feel my testosterone is going down. In addition, D-Aspartic acid basically stopped any additional hair from falling out. I used to get quite a few hairs in the tub when I took a shower. After I took that, no more hair falls out.

As i said earlier it’s a proven fact testosterone production declines the older we get and the examples of 70-80yos having high testosterone is just a rare example . It always depends on your genetics .
Other than that TRT is prescribed by a Doctor only if you need to keep your testosterone levels back to normal if you already have an issue . Also it’s not something expensive. Last time i checked medical testosterone was 10 € per 250 mg , and you need around 100 mg every week to have more than high testosterone than you would naturally produce . People spend 10 times more for other stupid things .

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Well I never had a bad wife so can't really speak to the declining testosterone due to it. As for Viagra and Cialis, I think originally it was for old dudes that's sick of having sex with their wives and couldn't get it up easily. But now, it's mainly to help out everyone looking at and fapping to internet porn, when they can actually have real sex.

Those same old dudes got "sick" of their wives because they were no longer sweet. Bossy, controlling wives, who are negative as fvck. Negativity is powerful dude.