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Dealing with declining libido as you age

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D-Aspartic Acid, gotcha. I wonder if I can get that without a prescription here.

What actually is Testosterone Replacement Therapy? I've never heard of it in Italy.
It can be found anywhere. I get the big powder bag from Amazon. I wouldn't recommend the capsules as you have to take many of them. I just used a teaspoon and mixed it in with some orange juice everyday. 2 week on, 1 week off. The first couple off weeks, you might actually feel weak again compared to previous weeks as a FYI.

TRT is like a lower dosage of steroids but it is controlled and prescribed in a custom dosage monitored by your doctor. It can be very expensive though and can be administered several ways, patch, oral, injections. Many say the injection is the best and most effective delivery method though. I just can't see myself spending that kind of money and injecting myself a couple times a week for the rest of my life though. It's not very sustainable model if you ask me.
 

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I think this definitely plays a role but for me, I think it can be a question of which came first, chicken or the egg syndrome.
As you know, if you have low T or it falls off as you age, you become more psychologically docile, content, agreeable(yes honey...), etc. We also know stress can raise cortisol levels which in turn reduces testosterone levels. So theoretically if your T fell and you became more docile and possibly start exhibiting beta traits that you never had before, this could turn off your wife and have her overstep her boundaries and look down at you with a pathetic look since you've changed. But on the other hand, if you had a bad wife to start with, she is the one that could've played a hand at lowering your testosterone levels to begin with by giving you all that stress. I'm not sure if I'm conveying this correctly for anyone to understand it...
Conditioning for control occurs over time. So she triggered it, because her instinct is to be over the top of you.
I think this definitely plays a role but for me, I think it can be a question of which came first, chicken or the egg syndrome.
As you know, if you have low T or it falls off as you age, you become more psychologically docile, content, agreeable(yes honey...), etc. We also know stress can raise cortisol levels which in turn reduces testosterone levels. So theoretically if your T fell and you became more docile and possibly start exhibiting beta traits that you never had before, this could turn off your wife and have her overstep her boundaries and look down at you with a pathetic look since you've changed. But on the other hand, if you had a bad wife to start with, she is the one that could've played a hand at lowering your testosterone levels to begin with by giving you all that stress. I'm not sure if I'm conveying this correctly for anyone to understand it...
A bad wife will do your head in, and it can be so bad that you feel like 1/4-1/2 the man and your dyck won't get hard. This was the real reason for Viagra and Cialis in my guess.
 

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A bad wife will do your head in, and it can be so bad that you feel like 1/4-1/2 the man and your dyck won't get hard. This was the real reason for Viagra and Cialis in my guess.
Well I never had a bad wife so can't really speak to the declining testosterone due to it. As for Viagra and Cialis, I think originally it was for old dudes that's sick of having sex with their wives and couldn't get it up easily. But now, it's mainly to help out everyone looking at and fapping to internet porn, when they can actually have real sex.
 

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TRT to me is an easy way out but certainly nothing wrong with it if you can afford it, want fast results, and look the best you can with minimal effort.
For me personally, I prefer to try to maintain/boost my testosterone naturally through nutrition and exercise specifically targeted for older 40+ yo guys. I do believe though that you definitely should take supplements/vitamins after 40 as it's nearly impossible to feel energized, alert, etc. all naturally.
Went through a bunch of various supplements and currently, I'm trying to stay simple and minimal as possible. Rainbow multivitamin, Vitamin D, ZMA seems to do it for me. Earlier I was on D-Aspartic acid and it really helped me personally but I still feel good after I stopped using it for a few months. YMMV. I may start using it again if I feel slugglish or feel my testosterone is going down. In addition, D-Aspartic acid basically stopped any additional hair from falling out. I used to get quite a few hairs in the tub when I took a shower. After I took that, no more hair falls out.
As i said earlier it’s a proven fact testosterone production declines the older we get and the examples of 70-80yos having high testosterone is just a rare example . It always depends on your genetics .
Other than that TRT is prescribed by a Doctor only if you need to keep your testosterone levels back to normal if you already have an issue . Also it’s not something expensive. Last time i checked medical testosterone was 10 € per 250 mg , and you need around 100 mg every week to have more than high testosterone than you would naturally produce . People spend 10 times more for other stupid things .
 

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Well I never had a bad wife so can't really speak to the declining testosterone due to it. As for Viagra and Cialis, I think originally it was for old dudes that's sick of having sex with their wives and couldn't get it up easily. But now, it's mainly to help out everyone looking at and fapping to internet porn, when they can actually have real sex.
Those same old dudes got "sick" of their wives because they were no longer sweet. Bossy, controlling wives, who are negative as fvck. Negativity is powerful dude.
 
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As i said earlier it’s a proven fact testosterone production declines the older we get and the examples of 70-80yos having high testosterone is just a rare example . It always depends on your genetics .
Other than that TRT is prescribed by a Doctor only if you need to keep your testosterone levels back to normal if you already have an issue . Also it’s not something expensive. Last time i checked medical testosterone was 10 € per 250 mg , and you need around 100 mg every week to have more than high testosterone than you would naturally produce . People spend 10 times more for other stupid things .
Yeah I'm agreeing with you about declining testosterone as you age. Generally starting at 30 for most and by the time you're 50, most will be at half the level they started out with. All I'm saying is TRT is a personal choice and one that might be further dictated by your genetics and how much you actually lose. As for costs, I think it will vary depending on where you live and availability of the various brands/types and whether you can get insurance to cover it.
 

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As i said earlier it’s a proven fact testosterone production declines the older we get and the examples of 70-80yos having high testosterone is just a rare example . It always depends on your genetics .
Other than that TRT is prescribed by a Doctor only if you need to keep your testosterone levels back to normal if you already have an issue . Also it’s not something expensive. Last time i checked medical testosterone was 10 € per 250 mg , and you need around 100 mg every week to have more than high testosterone than you would naturally produce . People spend 10 times more for other stupid things .
Genetics and how you treat yourself
 

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Yeah I'm agreeing with you about declining testosterone as you age. Generally starting at 30 for most and by the time you're 50, most will be at half the level they started out with. All I'm saying is TRT is a personal choice and one that might be further dictated by your genetics and how much you actually lose. As for costs, I think it will vary depending on where you live and availability of the various brands/types and whether you can get insurance to cover it.
The stat is it decrease 1% per year after 40
 

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This thread inspired me to experiment

As well as Lifting, I have been jogging every morning before breakfast on an empty stomach. Something is working and I can feel my libido climbing. I have as well removed all elements of stress from my life

I've also dropped hardcore p0rn. The reason is to de-sensitize myself to extremities and become excited with "suggestive" imagery instead. I think libido has a lot to do with imagination

When I get h0rny I fvck my wife but I can't decide whether to fap or not. I haven't seen enough evidence for it. For me, keeping my d!ck active seems better than not. But I'm still undecided about this

I've also ordered high quality zinc, magnesium and boron. I'm gonna to see what works and what doesn't and get to know my body better in case libido becomes an issue in future. I've also tried viagra just out of curiosity and works for me
 
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