Got a girl I'm talking to that is obviously an AW. Extremely into herself to the point where it's pathetic. She is somewhat nice, it's just that she tries to qualify herself extremely way too much. She doesn't necessarily say anything disrespectful, but she does put on this im-better-than-you front. She has called me cute and slightly flirts, but I just dont feel like the FIRE is there. I feel I have to whip out some big guns and almost attack her personality and get a fire raging before I can do anything sexual with her. It took me awhile just to even get her number. It took 2 tries. I'm always DHVing myself through stories, and I don't let her disrespect me. But I just feel like the UMPH isnt there yet. So I need to kick it right in the ass, you know? How do you deal with girls like this?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dealing with attention wh0res.. how to sack them?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Well, she's just one of my many plates. It's not like im really trippin over it. I've just always felt when dealing with extremely hott girls you sometimes almost have to insult them and get them hating you before you can seduce them, maybe I'm wrong though.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.