Got a girl I'm talking to that is obviously an AW. Extremely into herself to the point where it's pathetic. She is somewhat nice, it's just that she tries to qualify herself extremely way too much. She doesn't necessarily say anything disrespectful, but she does put on this im-better-than-you front. She has called me cute and slightly flirts, but I just dont feel like the FIRE is there. I feel I have to whip out some big guns and almost attack her personality and get a fire raging before I can do anything sexual with her. It took me awhile just to even get her number. It took 2 tries. I'm always DHVing myself through stories, and I don't let her disrespect me. But I just feel like the UMPH isnt there yet. So I need to kick it right in the ass, you know? How do you deal with girls like this?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Dealing with attention wh0res.. how to sack them?
- Thread starter Apathy
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Well, she's just one of my many plates. It's not like im really trippin over it. I've just always felt when dealing with extremely hott girls you sometimes almost have to insult them and get them hating you before you can seduce them, maybe I'm wrong though.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.