Got a girl I'm talking to that is obviously an AW. Extremely into herself to the point where it's pathetic. She is somewhat nice, it's just that she tries to qualify herself extremely way too much. She doesn't necessarily say anything disrespectful, but she does put on this im-better-than-you front. She has called me cute and slightly flirts, but I just dont feel like the FIRE is there. I feel I have to whip out some big guns and almost attack her personality and get a fire raging before I can do anything sexual with her. It took me awhile just to even get her number. It took 2 tries. I'm always DHVing myself through stories, and I don't let her disrespect me. But I just feel like the UMPH isnt there yet. So I need to kick it right in the ass, you know? How do you deal with girls like this?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dealing with attention wh0res.. how to sack them?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Well, she's just one of my many plates. It's not like im really trippin over it. I've just always felt when dealing with extremely hott girls you sometimes almost have to insult them and get them hating you before you can seduce them, maybe I'm wrong though.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.