"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dealing with attention wh0res.. how to sack them?

Apathy

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Got a girl I'm talking to that is obviously an AW. Extremely into herself to the point where it's pathetic. She is somewhat nice, it's just that she tries to qualify herself extremely way too much. She doesn't necessarily say anything disrespectful, but she does put on this im-better-than-you front. She has called me cute and slightly flirts, but I just dont feel like the FIRE is there. I feel I have to whip out some big guns and almost attack her personality and get a fire raging before I can do anything sexual with her. It took me awhile just to even get her number. It took 2 tries. I'm always DHVing myself through stories, and I don't let her disrespect me. But I just feel like the UMPH isnt there yet. So I need to kick it right in the ass, you know? How do you deal with girls like this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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horaholic

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Dont. Move on. Maybe she will chase you if you do. Do not focus on one girl, especially AW's
 

Apathy

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Well, she's just one of my many plates. It's not like im really trippin over it. I've just always felt when dealing with extremely hott girls you sometimes almost have to insult them and get them hating you before you can seduce them, maybe I'm wrong though.
 

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best thing to do to an attention wh0re is not give her attention
 

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horaholic said:
Dont. Move on. Maybe she will chase you if you do. Do not focus on one girl, especially AW's
:up:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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